Angel1111 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Fallen Angel, not meaning to offend, but why are we looking at someone's cavity in your avatar?
Fallen Angel Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Fallen Angel, not meaning to offend, but why are we looking at someone's cavity in your avatar? It is a filling not a cavity , and because I can have any avatar I like.. and I loved that kiss.. *shrug* you do not have to look aat my avatar if it offends you, and I change them regularly so perhaps next week it will be a picture of me with my son, or me with no make-up (scary), or me and my cat... lol.. why does my choice of avatar bother you? and why do you not use photos of yourself? *shrug*
Angel1111 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 (edited) It is a filling not a cavity , and because I can have any avatar I like.. and I loved that kiss.. *shrug* you do not have to look aat my avatar if it offends you, and I change them regularly so perhaps next week it will be a picture of me with my son, or me with no make-up (scary), or me and my cat... lol.. why does my choice of avatar bother you? and why do you not use photos of yourself? *shrug* I'm just being funny. Honestly, I laugh every time I see it and I just had to tease you about it. Yeah, I knew it was a filling. hee hee Me put a pic of myself???? Are you nuts???? I put all this information on a worldwide site that if someone who knew me or my xMM saw, all hell would break loose. Sorry, I have too many skeletons in the closet and I've talked about them - so I can't put my piccie up. Actually I put it up once because there was a thread about sharing our pics and I left it there for awhile before I remembered it. I almost had a heart attack when I realized what I had done. This is what happens when you once slept with the married president of your company - doomed to secrecy. Ok, the real truth - angels can't be photographed. Edited January 15, 2010 by Angel1111
pureinheart Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I was just reading atlnay's thread about the movie White Oleander, and it reminded me of something. I'm not sure if I ever mentioned this on LS or not... Back in about July when xMM had his 2nd of the 4 D-days he has had with me, he drove 4 hours to tell me in person that he felt like he had to stay and work on his M.... Ya right.. ok. Anyway, if I recall correctly, he had barely gotten back home from being down here to see me and he was texting. But here's the sick part: He said something to the effect of "I know this sounds sick, but I almost wish there was some kind of tragedy so I could be with you without having to leave her outright..." O.M.G. I had forgotten that. It was relatively early on in the A, about 3 months in. I remember being a bit disturbed, but at the time I took it as basically his way of telling me he was desperate to be with me... I should have told his W this the other night when she called me. LOL (I'm just kidding, I could not tell her that!) Just a personal example of the craziness that lurks deep within people's minds... I am curious if any of you have had anything weird like this happen in your A... I haven't read any of the replies yet, although it almost sounds like he was wishing his W would die? So that he did n't have to deal with D or something? Or wishing something bad on the M... I had a ton of weird things happen with exMM/tightwad, ya got a few years to hear some of the stories?????...lol....
pureinheart Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I change them regularly so perhaps next week it will be a picture of me with my son, or me with no make-up (scary), or me and my cat... lol.. * Me in the morning....no FA I give "scary" a new meaning...hey I couldn't figure out what your avatar was, I need new glasses though anyway....lol
pureinheart Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I just don't agree, FA. Coward is a derogatory term in my opinon. I don't use words like that. I have seen my MM change, evolve into a different person in front of my eyes during our relationship. This period of his life is life-altering. He is now truer to himself than he ever has been. Sure, the method of having an extramarital affair might not be the best, but the metamorphis is happening just the same. It is a life-crisis, and life-crisises give way to change and progress. Never would I use the word coward in that context. I am certain most posters on LS will not agree with what I have written here, but I have seen it happen, you have not. You know JJ, I know I talk a lot of mess about exMM/(can't make up his mind/?)....but ok, I will get real (I know it's about time...lol). We joke with each other all of the time. We have been told by many people we act like brother and sister. There is nothing that we cannot say to the other. Everybody loves us around town and when all of us are together (my kids,grandkids and him and me) they all comment on how cute we all interact with each other, and I have to say it is very real. He does have a great sense of humor and that is what attracted me in the first place. We fight like cats and dogs and mostlikely the two most stubborn people on this planet. When we first started hanging out together, nobody could understand it, him being M or not, they could not get it....we were two TOTALLY different types of people, not making him better than me or vise versa....but very different. I never felt he could handle D and so because we were friends I rarely encouraged D in his sitch, in fact that is why I walked....we were getting tooooo close and nope. While we were hanging I noticed me being in his life made a big difference, so much for the good....I also JJ saw him evolve into a "man" basically. If I were to walk away now, and it would take me completely walking away, I coulkd be happy with the fact that our R was good for him in many ways. JJ, this is the OM/OW forum, discussions for those who find themselves in these sitches....you should be able to talk the way you want to without reprocussion. I was thinking about this today, ok I don't like strip clubs and sure I can walk into one and tell the strippers that I don't like it and that in "my" opinion it is not good for them or their clientel. Ya I have issues with it because one of my ex's was addicted to porn and spent a lot of our money in strip clubs, so yes it is a personal matter for me....BUT it is their establishment and their choice and it works for them...now I donot want to go into a strip club to "understand" the other side, I do not care. I did want to know all of the details from my ex and all it did was torment me, I was so tormented....so now in my life I don't want any details. The details I am referring to is to why he went to strip clubs, what was his motivation, what was going on in his mind....I did not want to know what happened with him and the women. Oh and for the record, one of these days I'm gonna get this spell check working cuz I know my spelling is attrocious...lol Ya, I was/is a good influence, our R was good for him.
jennie-jennie Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Thanks, pureinheart, I really appreciate your post. Seems you know what I am talking about.
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