dreamer84 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Have you ever asked yourself why it is so difficult to stop thinking about someone? We are all psychic in one way or another. When you connect to another man/woman in a deep way, you are connecting with your souls. Most people don't realize how psychic they really are. Everyone is clairsentient whether they know it or not. Being clairsentient means that you have the psychic ability to feel another person's energy and feelings. Now, when you think about someone in a normal way, there is nothing unusual there. Then all of a sudden you feel overwhelmed like you are in a fog and you can't stop thinking about them. Now, stop for a second and focus on where you are feeling the energy. It is usually in the heart and chest area. You've had that funny feeling before. Remember. You just thought it was YOU. What is going on is that you are feeling THEIR THOUGHTS. WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IS WHAT THEY ARE THINKING AND FEELING ABOUT YOU. During the time you are experiencing this, you may feel feelings from extreme sadness, or guilt to feelings of peace or missing someone. Keep in mind you only started feeling these thoughts when you connected to their energy. So know that you if you are feeling great sadness, it will pass. If you are feeling a great feeling of peace and joy, you know they are thinking wonderful thoughts of you. sometimes...just sometimes, i miss her for no reason...and i think...she is thinking about me...we had alot of the same thoughts once... i missing her really bad right now...for some reason
gaudi Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 I'm up and down myself to be honest mate. One minute I'm missing her soooo much (like now). Other times I just want to move on and think i'm better off doing that without her. I can't believe that psychic stuff though. I believe in a lot of mad stuff as well, higher powers and all that, but I can't believe that one. Did someone post it ??
Ilovecake Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 That's a bunch of mumbo jumbo hooey. You miss her because your time isn't occupied doing something or someone better.
teanoranges Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Its hope. You think you are soo connected to someone that you can feel them. I once thought everytime my ears rang, he was talking about me! lol. I used to think it was 'meant to be' because we got sick at the same time or rediscovered the same song at the same time... little things. After a while, you just feel dumb and numb. Of course, they're getting on with their lives... don't hold on to something that's gone. My ex is with another woman, and sometimes I still 'hope' that my ears will ring... but really... I know its ridiculous believing that crap.
bananaboat11 Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 We all have ups & downs.. we had a connection that felt so real as if we were going to spend the rest of our days with his person. I have those ups & downs... but the one thing you need to remember is what you're feeling is NORMAL. What they're feeling... is unhealthy. Regardless... everyone in their position does it... The funny thing is, even though you're the one that's hurt... you're the one that's normal... nothing about you has changed other than him/her not being there anymore... of course we're hurt... they took away something we cared about. The thing is... look at it this way.. they're running. Unless you cheated on him/her and/or ****ed up in some grotesque way... they have the problem... they are the problem. Your feelings are normal and healthy... you're empty inside. That's why we fill that void with positive influences... so we pretend to forget... to forgive... to move on until we eventually forget. (unfortunately... as said in swingers (first scene), they know when we forget and then they come back)... What they're doing is unhealthy... unforunately it's too common. Eventually, they realize that this temporary void filler (missing you) doesn't satisfy them the way you did... and if they can see they are the problem they'll go through hell twice and back to win your heart (rare)... The best part about these ups and downs is it allows you to look introspectively that it was not YOU.. it was them. You are an amazing person... and use this time to better yourself for the rest of your life... that one day you will be a better partner... a better friend... a better lover... a better potential spouse... father... husband... wife... mother.... Sometimes I wonder... what is there out there for me? Why do I deserve the life I want? Why can't I have the girl I want? How can one be so heartless and cruel?... how can she be so cold? I want to believe in love... I want to believe the endless, undying love that vies to tie two souls together for all of eternity... beyond life... beyond death... into a surreal, alternate planar of reality... where your eyes meet and together traverse this world, this time... the mortality of man and enter into a world where love has no bounds... ...I want to believe I may find that...
Zeegagge Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I once thought everytime my ears rang, he was talking about me! After a while, you just feel dumb and numb. Of course, they're getting on with their lives... don't hold on to something that's gone. I know its ridiculous believing that crap. I know all about that, I have this weird thing, anytime I see or hear the number 7 it makes me think about getting back together with her. Gotta quit with that.
PinkToes Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I totally believe it. Gives me comfort. Nothing wrong with that, when you've had your heart ripped into a million pieces, IMO.
DenverBachelor Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Well, I'm going to say something very controversial here. I've been a bit "clairvoyant" my entire life. I remember with an ex of mine that I was very close to (years ago), we played a game where we'd both say a number out loud at the same time to see if we'd get the same number. We did it three times in a row and all three were exactly right. 1 in 1,000 chance, right? I've felt things here and there that were sudden and unprovoked, and each time it was always because something really did happen. We do tie ourselves into things in life and get tangled up in spiritual webs way outside of what we know of physics. I do believe these things because I have experienced them first hand. I knew when my parents got rid of our dog while I was at summer camp even though it was totally out of the blue. The first thing I did when I saw them was run up to them and ask why they got rid of our dog, and both of my parents looked at each other and blamed the other for telling me without the other's knowledge. We're more in tune to this as kids but "real life" and education push us away from those instincts as we get older. But you can't discount human intuition because sometimes it is very powerful.
PinkToes Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Well, I'm going to say something very controversial here. I've been a bit "clairvoyant" my entire life. I remember with an ex of mine that I was very close to (years ago), we played a game where we'd both say a number out loud at the same time to see if we'd get the same number. We did it three times in a row and all three were exactly right. 1 in 1,000 chance, right? I've felt things here and there that were sudden and unprovoked, and each time it was always because something really did happen. We do tie ourselves into things in life and get tangled up in spiritual webs way outside of what we know of physics. I do believe these things because I have experienced them first hand. I knew when my parents got rid of our dog while I was at summer camp even though it was totally out of the blue. The first thing I did when I saw them was run up to them and ask why they got rid of our dog, and both of my parents looked at each other and blamed the other for telling me without the other's knowledge. We're more in tune to this as kids but "real life" and education push us away from those instincts as we get older. But you can't discount human intuition because sometimes it is very powerful. Absolutely! Kids are amazingly intuitive (and I have a belief system that totally explains that in a way that works for me) and we all lose a lot of that as we get older. It's unfortunate. But it is still available, if we learn to trust our gut, intuition, hunches -- whatever you want to call it.
Author dreamer84 Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 Well, I'm going to say something very controversial here. I've been a bit "clairvoyant" my entire life. I remember with an ex of mine that I was very close to (years ago), we played a game where we'd both say a number out loud at the same time to see if we'd get the same number. We did it three times in a row and all three were exactly right. 1 in 1,000 chance, right? I've felt things here and there that were sudden and unprovoked, and each time it was always because something really did happen. We do tie ourselves into things in life and get tangled up in spiritual webs way outside of what we know of physics. I do believe these things because I have experienced them first hand. I knew when my parents got rid of our dog while I was at summer camp even though it was totally out of the blue. The first thing I did when I saw them was run up to them and ask why they got rid of our dog, and both of my parents looked at each other and blamed the other for telling me without the other's knowledge. We're more in tune to this as kids but "real life" and education push us away from those instincts as we get older. But you can't discount human intuition because sometimes it is very powerful. yeah I started missing her really bad for no reason around new years...i started feeling hurt and missing her real bad and angry for no reason....she had started a new relationship (i wasn't snooping i was in a public area and she and her lover popped on) it happened again months before we had not been talking and i was missing her real bad...the next day we started talking... we were in the public chat again and someone said something stupid and i said it first and she went..***** I said the same thing... like we always said the same thing, the same jokes, went fot the same thing that interested us i.e. we went to walmart and saw some cinnomon rolls and we both went to pick it up... anyway....idk...i just wonder sometimes, its not really hope because its usually when im doing nothing that has anything to do with her or busy and i just start missing her...for no reason....ie. i was moving furniture and when we got in the van bam...i missed her.... if thats the case...she thinks about me ALOT.
CaliGuy Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I don't believe this one bit. While I believe if you connect with someone on a deeply intimate level that it can effect you physically, I don't believe that there is a psychic connection. Besides, if they loved you as deeply as you love them, you wouldn't be broken up.
Ms. Joolie Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Yes, I believe it's possible. I'm a big believer in energy.
HeavenOrHell Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I'm not sure what I believe, but out of desperation I contacted 2 clairvoyants and both told me my ex will come back to me, I sent one of them a photo of us both she said the love she felt from it was so overwhelming it swamped her and it took her several goes to be able to read it. But will it come true or not In the meantime I have a constant heavy sorrow in my heart which I cannot shift.
Author dreamer84 Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 I don't believe this one bit. While I believe if you connect with someone on a deeply intimate level that it can effect you physically, I don't believe that there is a psychic connection. Besides, if they loved you as deeply as you love them, you wouldn't be broken up. free will...you know people make mistakes all the time..whose to say she isn't thinking like damn i f'd up...i can't go back or i want to but the things i said to her she wouldn't...blah blah.... my friend and i fell out over gas money...we both ended up not speaking then i was the one who broke the silence... but im not saying the person loves you the same...sometimes this happens with random people whom you don't love romantically, it could be someone you know or remember and just happen to think of them then bam...they pop up...like i remember one time in high school it was this guy...no feelings for him or anything but he ended up getting kicked out and im like damn i wonder what happened to him, he told this nice story of how'd he protect his brothers (it was like a emotion you wouldnt expect this type of guy to say) any way later that night he was on the news for saving someone's life... idk...i just find that weird sometimes...id think about her and she'd pop online...yes coincidence...but several times in a row? for me...this happens out of no where, i really don't think about her like im talking to a friend, im at work, watching tv just anything that has nothing to do with her and bam...she pops in my head
teanoranges Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Its so sad. These are the thoughts I have been fighting since my break-up. We always think that our love is something bigger and grander than everything and everyone else's. Trust me, I wish it was possible... I do hope with my heart that its real, but at the same time, I think its a fairytale we make up to help us feel better (and as long as you understand that, its okay to believe it) I've been trying to work on thinking in that 'fairytale' mindset, because I believed everything was spiritual and connected. I seriously thought this guy was another half of me. I'm not trying to squash the dreams... because if you find out its true, let me know. I'd sooo be jumping on my 'intuitive wavelengths'
Angel1111 Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 I think we connect to people but I don't believe that the feelings we feel are because we're tapping into the heads. I do think we're all psychic in one way or another. I think our 'energy' stays in a room for awhile after we leave. It's like when you walk into a room where people have been arguing - you just know something is wrong, even though everything appears normal. Quite often, we can think of someone we hadn't thought of in a long time and then suddenly we hear from them. This is an area that is still very much misunderstood. Maybe someday we'll understand the full extent of our psychic powers but I think this article is a little over the top.
Author dreamer84 Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 well im not sying take the article in a literal sense i meant do anyone believe that sometimes what you feel is beyond you, that it could be (just a thought not hard fact) someone is thinking of you? almost like a wives tale
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