Limbo21 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Greyclouds for his support in the recent weeks. I feel as if i've been put through the proverbial meat-grinder. My ex simply doesn't understand the concept of no contact? I originally blocked her from facebook, she created a new account to bypass the block, I have now deleted my account. She then sends me 'i want you back' emails so I go back - she pulls away again so I block her email addy! She creates a new one, I block again. So far I've got 4 blocked email addys off hers .... That didn't work so now have a new email. She text & calls all day, again saying she wants me. I go back (doh) she pulls away... I have now changed my tel no's. Trouble is she lives real close to me. So far I've had 1 letter, 2 cards & flowers delivered. All hand posted (bar the flowers & yes I'm a man). She just wants my companionship. I can't give her that. I've told her so many times. I love this girl like i've never loved another woman! That makes it harder to keep being evasive but for my own sanity I can't keep this contact. So far she asked me back 3 times (with about 1 month nc between each one - well I ignore her attempts until she actually says "I love you, i want you" so I think 'she's finally realised what's she's lost' but then pulls away this breakup though is an odd one. She's married & has been throught our 2.5 year relationship, she's a Christian so therefore can't be in a sexual relationship with me until she's divorced (they split 2.5 years ago now & only got back into her religion 6 mnths ago - that's when she changed the goalposts as we'd pretty much lived together for those years, and of course lots of sex). I love this girl but she can't give me what I want - solution? No contact but she won't leave me to grieve and it's killing me Anyway I digress ... The reason for my post is a thankyou & that goes to you dude thanks again limbo
sean1970 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 I love this girl but she can't give me what I want - solution? No contact but she won't leave me to grieve and it's killing me There are legal options...
USMCHokie Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 There are legal options... I will also gladly volunteer to form a task force...
GrayClouds Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 We are all here floating this ocean on the same rickety raft, we take turns leaning on each other. I know it is hard right now but take confidence despite the fact of how much she is working to mess with your mind, she's trying to push all your button, your finding a way to hold on. It may not feel like it at times, but you are. Keep up the hard work.
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