vixen Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 Ok, lets put this up now, There is this guy, i wrote him off the dating list, Because he's a devote Christian and I'm a devote pagan. Two very different worlds. But we totally dig each other and my roomy brought up the point that i don't want a serious relationship, so why not date? So i ran that by him and he was game. We went and saw a movie together. It went really well. I work with him, under him actually, he's a supervise at my job. He's so cute. Really nice butt. So i found out he's um, not had a women yet in his life, and he is 5 years older then me, I knew the five years part, not the non slept with anyone part. here is my problem, now i so want to hit that. LOL I told him work on monday is going to be ruff. XD he said whoo boy now is should worry. XD now what? Vixen Link to post Share on other sites
AllyKat Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 You need to respect whatever decision he makes about his virginity. Its not up to you. If the situation were reversed I would say the same thing. Virginity is very sacred to some, its not up to the other person whether they, "hit it" or not. Its up to him, dont push him or else you may push him right away! Link to post Share on other sites
Author vixen Posted December 28, 2003 Author Share Posted December 28, 2003 ive no intention of pushing him. I do respect his needs, plus a made a vow to myself not to sleep with anyone, but it's such a turn on. sigh, how do i cope? Link to post Share on other sites
AllyKat Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 If you both have made a vow, then only you two can know if you want to break it or not. I honestly have no clue how to NOT want to if you are attracted to someone...and are in a serious relationship with them. You have to know why you made the vow and what its worth to you. Guys come and go...do whats right for you. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 I figure if he's that devout a Christian, the question won't come up at all.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vixen Posted December 28, 2003 Author Share Posted December 28, 2003 true true, it's not a serious relationship, i see other guys remember. (not of late though ) But your right, i just continue being me, if he can handle it he can, if not, *shrug* there's other fish in da sea. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 Before you worry about sex, think about what this may do to your working relationship. Its not a good idea to date a co-worker--especially a supervisor. There may be some policies at your place of employment that prohibit this. One, or both of you could lose your job. If things don't work out with you two it could have a negative impact on your job performance also. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vixen Posted December 28, 2003 Author Share Posted December 28, 2003 in less then 40 days i will be working for my mom. We are keeping the whole thing secret, no one knows, and we are keeping it that way. As for policies, one of my best friends there met his wife there they dated while there and i don't think they kept it secret, he was her supervicor too. XD it's so funny like that he thinks it's a laugh riot. -_- Link to post Share on other sites
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