dune Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 hello this is my first time posting here i don't rearly know how or were to start? anyhow here goes, after 13 years togather 2 weeks ago i walked out on my family after a huge row with my gf she compleatly flipped out on me accused me of allsorts except cheating (which hasn't happened at all at least not on my part anyway),told me she did not love me and hasn't for several years????? i was so shocked and hurt by this i left and am currently sleeping on a mates floor after a couple of days of nc we are now talking again, she claims not to remember saying any of this to me(she was fairly drunk) but says she can't cope with me at home any more (she says)and has instagated benifit claims to pay for the house ect, she won'ts time to sort her head out,time to see if she loved me like she used to but i feel she's just playing for time and in the end i'll lose my family and home. the trouble is i want to go home as i love this woman more than i can put into words and miss the rest of my family. what to do now i hate living in limbo and would like it sorted one way or another for my childrens sake as well as my own. should i give her a time limit or just let this mess just drift on???
imagine Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Go back home. Get her into the AA program. How many kids have you got and why did you not marry?
Author dune Posted January 13, 2010 Author Posted January 13, 2010 1 boy of ours 1 boy from her previous, we were planning to mary this year but financies won,t allow unfortunatly, i have tried to go home but she's having none of it,says she needs time! how much time i don't know,what i do know is that its killing me inside, just wan't to be a family again.
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