rickigal Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 I have been doing amazingly awesome since the breakup. There are days I don't even think about him at all but they are usually just passing thoughts. The past couple of days I have been missing him so badly. I keep reliving the day he broke up with me in my head and it is driving me crazy! I had a short rebound relationship which ended because I found him posting ads on Craig's list for sex every other day which just reinforced my feelings of not being good enough for anyone to love. I am so down in the dumps about myself and being lovable lately. I miss my ex dearly but have somehow managed to not contact him. I still love him and wish things were different but at the same time I am dying to find someone to love me. Help!
GrayClouds Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 It is not a question if your lovable, you are. The question is what has happen in your past that encourage you to go out and find crappy guys that make you feel like your not lovable? A good deal of it is a by product of a break up. After one you fel like crap and when you feel like crap we go out and find someone who will reinforce that feeling. That is why it is important to say out of relationship until your really healed. If you are seeing a pattern then try working on that question some more. Yes it is much harder work and likely will take some hard emotional effort to find a answer but the rewards of doing so is considerable. The least of it being that you will discover how lovable you are. Mean time be kind to yourself and give it time.
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