minute made Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 My ex of about 3 weeks kept in contact with me for almost this whole time.(she was the dumper) Since she came back from Christmas break she has been sneaking around her roomates (best friends) to come see me. Or she invites me over late at night. This coming Thursday we are going to dinner because I said we need to have a big talk, of course she says "just friends, going for a chat". Anyone gals out there been the dumper and did this same thing?
lmauk Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Just friends going for a chat = just friends going for a chat. she's telling you thats all she wants. I wouldnt bother meeting her. You wont get answers you want/need (think you need) The answers are bright and shiny SHE DUMPED YOU its horrible i know but trust me DONT take the same path i did. Meeting up, txting sneeking, feels good doesnt it? It wont last shell drop you like a sack of s**t. because whilst you are clinging on to her she is moving away from you, further and further each time she sees you. Go no contact shes using you. in time you'll bump into the great girl you deserve that will be very glad you decided to sack your ex off! xx
GrayClouds Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 My ex of about 3 weeks kept in contact with me for almost this whole time.(she was the dumper) Since she came back from Christmas break she has been sneaking around her roomates (best friends) to come see me. Or she invites me over late at night. This coming Thursday we are going to dinner because I said we need to have a big talk, of course she says "just friends, going for a chat". Anyone gals out there been the dumper and did this same thing? She is say she want to keep you interested because it boost her ego and give her a second choice in case this great new single life does not work out. Your better then someones second choice.
sunrae Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Minute Made, I had to go back and read your original post about your breakup... Being a women, no I have never strung someone along as much as she has you... She's sending you mixed messages and it's not fair to you and you should put your foot down... Either she should be committed to you or let you go... No sneaking around, sleeping with you, and telling you yall are just friends... I guess I dont undrstand why in college, she broke up with you because of financial reasons?? All my friends and boyfriends in college, were all broke, money to me didnt matter at that time.... Minute Made, you deserve better than to let her continue jerking your chain.
deux ex machina Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 My ex of about 3 weeks kept in contact with me for almost this whole time.(she was the dumper) Since she came back from Christmas break she has been sneaking around her roomates (best friends) to come see me. Or she invites me over late at night. This coming Thursday we are going to dinner because I said we need to have a big talk, of course she says "just friends, going for a chat". Anyone gals out there been the dumper and did this same thing? As long as you have feelings for her that go beyond friends, this is not a good thing to pursue.
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