caseyjanetc Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now, and he used to do gym a fair bit when we first met, but now he does it daily, everyday at 12pm to 2pm. He already complained he didnt get enough sleep because he works at 11pm to 7am, so why did he put gym on top of it? It was harder for him to see me before because he needs sleep, but now he can hardly see me ever, and i feel alone, i feel single. i've tried talking to him about it, but he asks " why should i make sacrafises for you?, i want to do gym" And he always talks about how big he is, and that he gets bigger everyday. I am sick of it, i feel like hes inlove with himself than me, im sick of feeling alone and left out, he pushes me away.
paleblue Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 well, i guess, if you feel its worth talking to him first, try that, and if he doesnt listen and things remain the same than you have all rights to break it off. being in a relationship with someone means spending time together with that one person. making each other feel like they are a part of things.
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 OH EM GEE..lol i am in a similar situation with my bf(well.. ex since last night) i work alot during the week i am off on tuesdays and those are the days i usually went to his house and see him, sometimes we would hang out on the weekends(if i suggested it) he would come to my house sometimes and slept over. But everytime i was at his house he would always b on his phone making plans with his "friends" for the day although he goes to school at nights. Well anyways the point is i barely saw him and when i did he didnt pay much attention to me at all!!...i barely talked to him because lately he wouldnt txt me during the day and when i called him at night he said he was playing video games and ignored me while i was trying to talk to him..i was getting so frustrated and i also talked to him about it bothering me and he said i was exagerating. The next day same thing no call no texts during the day and i call and he was playing his game again!..he had the nerve to say "why do you always call me when im doing something!!? im losing because of you!". he usually smokes weed with his friends and brother after he gets off school at night and those times he was smacked. i dont know if the weed has to do with him being so mean. Well the day after he texted me at night just to ask me if he could use one of my back packs for school and said bye after i said yes. Well i was thinking the whole day that i was also sick of being ignored and i didnt feel appreciated and i started to feel like he didnt care about making me happy at all! so i broke up with him and told him to never call me or txt me again and guess what he did? he hung up!...just like that......i sent him a txt explaining my reasons why i couldnt stay in the relationship and i wished him luck with school and said my goodbyes and i told him to not text me back..i was so heartbroken because he acted like he was wanting to break up and didnt show signs of caring at all if we split. i guess that was the big sign that the relationship definetly needed to be over. My advise to you is that you should definetly talk to him about what is bothering you about him. Give him a chance to change and see if he even tries to make things better.. if not-like my ex couldnt- you need to let him go..and me and you both need to take our time on our own and wait for someone who will appreciate us and love us and WANT to spend time with us and not the gym not their friends not their videogames........why cant guys be more like woman....mature earlier, be sensitive and caring and stick with one person?! ugh!...well goodluck for both of us..lol bye
Catseye8 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Is this the same man you post about here? Because if it is - YES you should break it off with him! Forget the gym; focus on the fact that this man is an abusive, controlling cheater who WILL end up hitting you (if he hasn't already). Get out!
sunrae Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Is this the same man you post about here? Because if it is - YES you should break it off with him! Forget the gym; focus on the fact that this man is an abusive, controlling cheater who WILL end up hitting you (if he hasn't already). Get out! I agree 100% with Catseye.... Run. Run, far far away....
Space Ritual Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now, and he used to do gym a fair bit when we first met, but now he does it daily, everyday at 12pm to 2pm. He already complained he didnt get enough sleep because he works at 11pm to 7am, so why did he put gym on top of it? It was harder for him to see me before because he needs sleep, but now he can hardly see me ever, and i feel alone, i feel single. i've tried talking to him about it, but he asks " why should i make sacrafises for you?, i want to do gym" And he always talks about how big he is, and that he gets bigger everyday. I am sick of it, i feel like hes inlove with himself than me, im sick of feeling alone and left out, he pushes me away. I think you would be wise to leave him...and while you are at it maybe tell him to contact MTV because he sounds like he needs to be on Jersey Shore Next Season
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