Softsoul Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 Hello everyone, I'm asking myself if any of you who are in serious relationships had a rough start into the relationship, and managed to overcome problems with time and develop a healthy long-lasting relationship. My relationship with the fiancee started out really badly. There were some mistakes on his part that were hard to get over. I had to be very patient for our relationship to develop and for the last year, we've started anew and are having a really good time together. It took a lot of effort on my part though, and a lot of forgiveness. Did any of you experience something like that?
Simon Attwood Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 My wife, when we were first seeing each other, ended it by text and went back to her ex for 3 months, I took her back and subsequently married her. That kind of thing?
Author Softsoul Posted January 12, 2010 Author Posted January 12, 2010 That's the kind of thing I was thinking of Simon, yes. That must have been hard for you... My fiancee was in love with a woman who didn't want to be with him, but I didn't know that for a long time while we were already dating. They were meeting up all the time and she almost destroyed our relationship. To add it up, he was confused about his ex as well, called me by her name and other things that were painful for me. In short, he was very confused about the women in his life and I didn't come first.That's all over now for a long time though, but sometimes I remember and it still hurts. I'm sorry you had such a rough start Simon, and I'm glad everything turned out well in the end for you two. And I hope I'll forget about these things once and for all and get married happily
Simon Attwood Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 That's the kind of thing I was thinking of Simon, yes. That must have been hard for you... My fiancee was in love with a woman who didn't want to be with him, but I didn't know that for a long time while we were already dating. They were meeting up all the time and she almost destroyed our relationship. To add it up, he was confused about his ex as well, called me by her name and other things that were painful for me. In short, he was very confused about the women in his life and I didn't come first.That's all over now for a long time though, but sometimes I remember and it still hurts. I'm sorry you had such a rough start Simon, and I'm glad everything turned out well in the end for you two. And I hope I'll forget about these things once and for all and get married happily It was a difficult time, and it certainly wasn't the end of difficult times. I just held faith in what I had seen and followed it consistently. I knew the person and her motives and I know we can all be confused at times by our feelings, especially when there is a fear in the equation. Love doesn't blind, it is fear that blinds. good luck with your relationship
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