nwsingleguy Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 Met a girl online and had two pretty good dates, both ended with a goodnight kiss and after date one she texted me that she had a good night and was looking forward to seeing me again. Since then I have initiated couple text and calls and basically gotten short responses. The other night I called and she texted me that she was watching tv with her girlfriends and maybe we could talk another night. Ladies, should I give it a few days and try her again, wait for her to initiate some contact, or just give up and figure that she'll make the next contact if she's interested. The attraction seemed to be there for both dates, but I'm used to women showing a lot more obvious interest when that happens. I hate games, but would I be best to back off and see what happens?
sparkle Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 It's not really clear how much time has passed, and how often you texted her, and if she ignored your message... If it's just been a couple days, I would give her the benefit of the doubt, wait a couple days, see if she contacts you, and if not, you can ask her out on a date once again. If she blows you off, then you may want to just step back and take it as a sign that she may not really be that interested. I will admit that I've told guys that it was nice meeting them/had fun, looking forward to seeing them again soon, knowing full well that I wasn't too interested in them, or bad timing or whatever reason. I just couldn't bring myself around to working up the courage to tell them that...(sorry).
Author nwsingleguy Posted January 12, 2010 Author Posted January 12, 2010 She returns my texts/calls just really short replies. I think she really meant that she had a good time, I didn't ask her she sent it on her own, and both dates ended with really long kisses (I'm actually the one that pulled away and ended the kisses). Just more or less wondering if I should back off and see if she contacts me. Not used to this, usually I either get blown off after date 1 or a girl shows a high level of interest and initiates some of the contact. Not used to this in between stuff. Was in a relationship for 5 years and still relearning some of this dating stuff.
New_Life08 Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 If you were the last one to contact her, then wait until she contacts you. According to what you say, it seems she doesn't have any hang-ups about contacting a guy; so let her make the next move.
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