DeadHead Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I'll give you a little background story so you can understand. This girl we will call her Jenni likes me alot, but whenever I'm around her she gets all shy, I try to talk to her but she looks down then I get shy and just end up talking to whoever is closest. We text all the time though.. Like tonite I was trying to get a conversation going but she was like giggling and staring at the ground. So this friday me, Jenni, my friend and his girlfriend are going out then to the movies. I don't want it to be as akward as it was tonite though, like half of it was me though, I just choked up.. Yea she's really a nice girl, and likes me alot, but I don't know how to approach it.. Any advice? ThankS!
thats what i said Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 The only thing I can think of or even suggest is stop being so shy and just ask her out. You can ask her to the movies, the mall, etc.
sparkle Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 How old is she? The movies are always a safe bet - if you both are shy and nervous, you can find things to discuss related to the movie, or other movies you've watched, etc. If she's really shy, she will probably feel comfortable discussing "safe topics", and even small talk at first until she feels more comfortable around you. Talk about safe easy things, like the movies, or music, or concerts, or school/work/classes...until you feel comfortable carrying on a conversation. Let us know how the date goes! lol
Author DeadHead Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 Wow, Well let me fill you in what happened in the last couple days, So the next day we talked for hours in person, about the most random stuff, we had a great time, we really to know eachother. Later on that night she started texting me asking about Sex and all that, I just went along with it, but she was really into it, to the point where I was getting a little creeped out , she was really into it . But yesterday (day after all that happened) she seemed all depressed, and said shes hurt from her recent break up.. She broke up with the guy over the summer which is more the 6 months ago? then she said she can't go out tonite.. but I think somethings wrong but I don't wanna stab at i and annoy her.
Author DeadHead Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 Yea man, I'm so confused. 1 day it seems If I asked her to marry me she would say yes, yet today it seems like she forgot about me..
Left in a Lurch Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 That's easy to figure out, her signals are that she is really into you or you are a creep that cannot take a hint and leave her alone. Does that clear it up?
Author DeadHead Posted January 16, 2010 Author Posted January 16, 2010 Not clear at all, cause she was the creepy one the night before, last night though she was cool again. Must be time of the month or something.. But I got the background story of her last break up, and the guy was such an ass.I don't know, We have plans for tomorrow so hopefully she does not call out
Left in a Lurch Posted January 16, 2010 Posted January 16, 2010 Keep in mind that any ex of hers would be called an ass even if he was the greatest guy in the world, you don't have his side of the story. Factor in that she might be bat sh*t crazy based on her bipolar behavior with you, and her ex might have run as fast as he could once he had enough.
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