mortensorchid Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I had two really nice dates with this man recently. We got together for lunch one Saturday, then last Friday we had dinner. He had called me twice the week before and set up our next encounter. After dinner on Friday night, we said a polite good-bye, hugged (as we had before), and said "Talk to you soon." I'm not talking to him like he's my therapist or a friend I've had for a while, if anything I'm just letting him take the lead. He's a good guy, as far as I can see. Should I wait for him to contact me again?
MyNameIsJonas Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I had two really nice dates with this man recently. We got together for lunch one Saturday, then last Friday we had dinner. He had called me twice the week before and set up our next encounter. After dinner on Friday night, we said a polite good-bye, hugged (as we had before), and said "Talk to you soon." I'm not talking to him like he's my therapist or a friend I've had for a while, if anything I'm just letting him take the lead. He's a good guy, as far as I can see. Should I wait for him to contact me again? If you want to talk to him and you like him, which you clearly do, then what is stopping you from calling him? Don't get wrapped up in "whose turn is it to call who." You will just drive yourself crazy because everyone and their aunt has a different opinion on that subject with different parameters. If you like the guy ignore all of that crap and do what feels right.
Author mortensorchid Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 I have determined that he's just not that into me. Think he'll just be a friend I guess if we ever see each other again. Oh well, back to the drawing board.
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