AppleGirl Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Here I am, back again. Honestly, I am just not sure why I stay in this relatinoship anymore. Here's the quick and dirty: Divorced, in a long term relationship. We essentially live as husband and wife. Porn has been the bane of my existence in this relationship. He has watched, downloaded and lied repeatedly about it. Don't tell me that his behaviour is "normal" because his consumption of porn was so excessive that we had to go to counselling. I mean, it was a "watching and downloading porn when I was out and he was responsible for both his and my very small children, type of habit. -or- spending the entire weekend, watching porn on his computer, while the family is home -or- watching and downloading for every moment he was alone for more than 5 seconds -or- constantly escalating the aggression and depravity of our sexual acts to match what he saw onscreen" It has been a nightmare. We have gone to counselling and he has been a model of good behaviour for the past few months and I even started to relax a little....until yesterday. I was on the computer, looking for a recipe, and decided to go through the "Recently Changed" files. And there were about 10 pictures of this half naked girl. All were of the same girl. I was livid and confronted him and he said he was confused about how the pictures got there, etc.... He looked genuinely confused but he has been a good liar in the past. He told me that he had been downloading music on that same day and that they must of come in on the computer from that. I am not terribly computer savvy, but I looked through the history and found that he had looked at 2 bit torrent sites that day and the pictures came from there. Some site called "I hate Natalie". But the thing that bothers me is that this site is listed on the computer history as being searched for from 2 different sites. So, to the computer savvy...is it possible that these pictures came from downloading music OR am I an enormous douche bag for trusting him again in the first place?
Payden Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Oh yes it can deff be downloaded via bit torrent. Bit torrent downloads media from several servers at the same time. Who knows what you download and dirty stuff that comes with said downloads. It's great advertising for backdoor advertisers. He could of downloaded them purposely, but sure....they could of come into his computer via bit torrent....oh yes.
alphamale Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 So, to the computer savvy...is it possible that these pictures came from downloading music ? no .
skydiveaddict Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Defintely bit torrents. you can download almost anything off torrent sites. even full length movies
Millstang Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 For downloading music, it comes in an MP3 format, in which pictures would not be present. But however, A Bit torrent DL can contain anything. But when it downloads, you are well aware of all the files that have been downloaded (they will be in the same place[file] as the song, or music that was downloaded)
Payden Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 For downloading music, it comes in an MP3 format, in which pictures would not be present. Oh pictures can be hidden withing a Mp3 file's code...I do it all the time...Mp3 is great for hiding trojans in.... People download a file(mp3) you give them along with my hidden exploit.... Mp3 have ALWAYS been notorious for hidden bugs and crap since the dawn of the internet.
Payden Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I Hate Natalie is a site that is meant for downloading naked pictures of girls. Well, one girl, Natalie. Best just to dumb him; he has a porn addiction that you cannot heal. You are obviously not sexy or hot enough for him, so he must supplement his god-like sexual appetite with computerized images. Sorry hun Wow, your'e nice:rolleyes:
Enema Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 1) It's extremely unlikely that he got the pictures 'accidentally" from downloading music, even if it was in a torrent. 0.0000001% chance. 2) You're constantly snooping, you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. 3) Expecting him "never" to look at porn is unrealistic.
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