pyroguy Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 Completely irrelevant. In the fat part of the bell curve, women seek more than just "not leeching" much more. They seek the "best" provider, and will readily upgrade for a wealthier man. Have seen this hundreds of times over 30 years of dating in all parts of the world, in every culture I've been exposed to. My attitude is just fine, other ad hominem ignored. But, hasn't this always been true, since the dawn of time? at least to some extent. Not all women are like this, but some or many are. One peek at that show "the bachelor" will tell you that. The girls on that show spend an hour with the guy, and they are all deeply in love with him. Why do I get the feeling that has never happened with them for any other guy. Again, this is nothing new, and I think the same point is still true for these guys-there's nothing you can do about it!! I coach youth football and baseball, and I tell my kids all they can do is give 110%. If they play and try as hard as they can, they can't do anything more! This is true for these guys. You can't govern what women desire, nor can you change it-it's their right. You can only be the "best you", and try and enjoy what life has to offer.
Ilovehim Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 are you serious with this stupid thread? imma sound like a complete b**ch but whatever...instead of going online looking for stuff and complaining about how girls dont like good guys and blah blah blah...why don't you go do something productive? this thread is rediculous to me and you're wasting our time.. and for your info most ladies i know like a good man, with a good heart and with a head over his shoulder who wont take one little example and blow it out of proportion and complain about why he hasn't had a g/f in 2 years. take care.
stace79 Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 So you have to be either a CEO or a criminal to get women? Criminals tend to be leader types. They take and do what they want, regardless of the rules. All I know is that I haven't had a gf in over 2 years, and this guy does, and he's abusive, and robs charities. Meanwhile, I donate to charities. I guess that's boring. Maybe it's because you spend too much time whining and crying and uploading useless tirades on Loveshack? I'd bet if they posted a picture of this dude's "girlfriend" you wouldn't want a girl like her anymore than I would want a guy like him...
paddington bear Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I don't believe in falling out of love. Love is an action word, you love something, which describes a stance you have on it. Love is a choice. You fall in lust with someone, and you learn to love them, quirks, personality failures and all. It's your choice to continue loving them despite these things, and despite yourself. I don't think love is a choice. I don't think it's something you can control, much as you'd like to.
silic0ntoad Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I don't think love is a choice. I don't think it's something you can control, much as you'd like to. Love by definition is an action word. You choose to take action.
jw90063 Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/01/10/AR2010011002605.html Criminal history CHECK Robbed charities CHECK Abusive CHECK When is the last time you had a girlfriend? When are you going to get therapy?
carhill Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 Hey, Beta/Meerkat, take a look at this bio (the top one) and the type of business he's associated himself with. I loved the irony. Now, take a look at this bio. Same guy. Married 30+ years (I did a quick background check). So, we have a crooked judge who went to prison (for seven years) and is still economically successful and has his family at his side. Ah, ain't charisma a sweet thing. He's found God and is a minister too. Fear not, ye beta soul; assert thyself and the power and the glory will be cast upon thee and society and the lord will forgive ye thy sins. OK, back to lunch
sagetalk Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Exhibit A. I'll just say it's a technical professional and I make around ~80k. Many girls I meet and reject me generally don't know anything about me. I can understand where you're coming from. I have a pretty good job, nice benefits, graduate education and I've had girls reject me fairly quickly knowing all of this. Sometimes two people just aren't compatible. In many of these "girls dating an idiot/jerk" scenarios, the guy plays head games with her and gets very physical very early on. It's not that she's really into him, it's that she likes that he knows how to push her buttons and that's what she's into. Never feel bad because some dumb criminal has a hot girl. I can almost guarantee he did not do it the legitimately (which leads to real solid relationships). They use drugs, head games, rush physical contact/sex, ignore her then reappear, and all kinds of disgusting behavior.
Pizzaman81 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 I can understand where you're coming from. I have a pretty good job, nice benefits, graduate education and I've had girls reject me fairly quickly knowing all of this. Sometimes two people just aren't compatible. In many of these "girls dating an idiot/jerk" scenarios, the guy plays head games with her and gets very physical very early on. It's not that she's really into him, it's that she likes that he knows how to push her buttons and that's what she's into. Never feel bad because some dumb criminal has a hot girl. I can almost guarantee he did not do it the legitimately (which leads to real solid relationships). They use drugs, head games, rush physical contact/sex, ignore her then reappear, and all kinds of disgusting behavior. Ya these things don't help as much as you think. Girls like me for me, not because i make 120K/year
PJKino Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 Ya these things don't help as much as you think. Girls like me for me, not because i make 120K/year Unles your unattractive then you have to bring money to the table
tami-chan Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 What about the physically unattractive woman who makes 6-figures a year? Do you think she will have the same option of finding someone by just "bringing in the money to the table"?
Pizzaman81 Posted January 13, 2010 Posted January 13, 2010 What about the physically unattractive woman who makes 6-figures a year? Do you think she will have the same option of finding someone by just "bringing in the money to the table"? Not really...
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