aerogurl87 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I think I'm still in love with my ex. It's been almost half a year since we talked and almost everyday I think of him. I think of his cute, dorky smile, his sexy scent, the way he always told me everything would be ok, dancing with him in the kitchen, driving around with him while we sung in the car, I could go on and on all day. But as much as I hate to admit it, I still love my ex boyfriend. Ugh!
sugarmomma Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Maybe you should get out and meet some new and exciting guys. You would probably still care for your ex but not be so focused on still being in love with him.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 Sugarmomma I went out and met new guys, I even got a boyfriend, but still I have my ex on my mind every single day! I even got rid of ever picture of him, everything he had ever written me, and anything that might remind me of him and yet and still I find myself thinking of him almost every day.
alphamale Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Sugarmomma I went out and met new guys, I even got a boyfriend, but still I have my ex on my mind every single day! I even got rid of ever picture of him, everything he had ever written me, and anything that might remind me of him and yet and still I find myself thinking of him almost every day. why don't you give him a call ag87?
meerkat stew Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 You owe it to your current BF to set him loose, then try to reconnect with the ex.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 why don't you give him a call ag87? I texted him tonight just to say "happy new year" and somehow it went from that to him telling me that he'd thought of me everyday since we broke up and how he still loved me. You owe it to your current BF to set him loose, then try to reconnect with the ex. I am meerkat. I know it's not fair for him to go along in our relationship believing I'm happy (which I sort of am, but I know I can be happier). So I've decided that I'm going to end things with him and then think about trying to get back with my ex.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I texted him tonight just to say "happy new year" and somehow it went from that to him telling me that he'd thought of me everyday since we broke up and how he still loved me. I am meerkat. I know it's not fair for him to go along in our relationship believing I'm happy (which I sort of am, but I know I can be happier). So I've decided that I'm going to end things with him and then think about trying to get back with my ex. Wow. Why did you guys break up in the first place?
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 Wow. Why did you guys break up in the first place? Haha well we were in a LDR and neither of us were ready for that at the time. But man am I happy to just talk to him again. Even if we never get back together, hopefully I can have my best friend back again.
meerkat stew Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 So I've decided that I'm going to end things with him and then think about trying to get back with my ex. Best wishes, you have lots of character for handling it this way.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Haha well we were in a LDR and neither of us were ready for that at the time. But man am I happy to just talk to him again. Even if we never get back together, hopefully I can have my best friend back again. Has anything shifted to change the dynamics that caused the original break-up?
OnlyJake Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 So I've decided that I'm going to end things with him and then think about trying to get back with my ex. Are you really? aerogurl, I don't mean this rudely, but I just skimmed through your other threads and I absolutely think you should break up with your current SO, because you seem very unhappy with him (every couple weeks), but you've said this a few times and are still with him... Has anything shifted to change the dynamics that caused the original break-up? This is an excellent question.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 Has anything shifted to change the dynamics that caused the original break-up? Good question SoulSearch. I think what has changed is that we've both grown up some while we were away from each other. He went and got his life together and I grew up in other ways like learning how to really compromise. We both know the issues that led to our breakup and we're both willing to face them head on as adults together, because we love each other. Are you really? aerogurl, I don't mean this rudely, but I just skimmed through your other threads and I absolutely think you should break up with your current SO, because you seem very unhappy with him (every couple weeks), but you've said this a few times and are still with him... Another good question. Yes I am unhappy with my current boyfriend and I've tried my best to look at the brightside of things and work things out because I don't give up on relationships easily if I can even see a glimmer of hope, but I think it's time for me and him to end. So yes I will break up with him, and for some reason I have this feeling he won't even care really.
stevejohnson1976 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 why don't you give him a call ag87? isnt this the 100% wrong thing to do? I'm still gaga over my ex (7 months ago), but have been told to just move on and forget about it.
Ms. Joolie Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I texted him tonight just to say "happy new year" and somehow it went from that to him telling me that he'd thought of me everyday since we broke up and how he still loved me. Give him a call, and just talk to him then. Let it out. The constant thinking of him is not just going to go away, and if his feelings are mutual you two might as well face it and talk. ...My former ex and I talked it out like two adults. It took one very honest conversation to get to where we are at now. We are giving it another go, and are very happy giving it another go. So we'll see.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 12, 2010 Author Posted January 12, 2010 Give him a call, and just talk to him then. Let it out. The constant thinking of him is not just going to go away, and if his feelings are mutual you two might as well face it and talk. ...My former ex and I talked it out like two adults. It took one very honest conversation to get to where we are at now. We are giving it another go, and are very happy giving it another go. So we'll see. We're in the process of that. Talking about the past, why things ended, and whether or not it would be worth it to give things a second shot. The thing is we both love each other to bits. And I know love isn't enough to make a relationship work, but we love each other and get each other. It's like we can read each other's minds, kinda crazy, lol. But I'll see what happens, hopefully things will go well. In the meantime I need to break up with my boyfriend when I see him again Wednesday. I can't string him along, it's just not right.
lino Posted January 12, 2010 Posted January 12, 2010 I can't string him along, it's just not right. Too late. If this guy is into you he won't take it so well and he'll be rightly pissed off if he finds out you dumped him to go back to your ex.
Author aerogurl87 Posted January 12, 2010 Author Posted January 12, 2010 Too late. If this guy is into you he won't take it so well and he'll be rightly pissed off if he finds out you dumped him to go back to your ex. Umm I highly doubt it. I don't think if a guy was really into a girl he'd constantly tell her that her college years are the years to experiment (yes that includes sexually). And he says stuff like "when you have kids one day" (note: he doesn't want children ever) or "one day when you get married". So I doubt he'll care really. I'm starting to think that he looks at me as a way to pass the time.
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