LastKiss13 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 (edited) Ok so this is kind of a long story but here it goes. There is this girl that I have known for quite a while now. We started to talk on facebook when I was a senior in HS (I guess it would have been 08) then I saw her around a little because she is my bosses girlfriends daughter (weird right) and I work in a very small town. Well I got her number and saw her at some partys and stuff but she always seemed to be dating someone or pretty much dating someone. Well this past summer after I graduated she kept asking me to take her offroading in my jeep, so I did and we had a fun time (got stuck out in the woods and I had her get behind the wheel and stuff) anyways we went out once after that to the drive-in theater alone....and I didnt make any moves because I was running a million things through my head about her being almost related to my boss (who is really cool, and more like a friend these days) but it was just kind of awkward, and I have been kicking myself you know where since then lol So, it wasnt such a big deal and we kind of stoped talking but now she keeps seeing me around town and texting me saying stuff how she saw me and we need to hang out. I always try to make plans with her but it never works out (one of us is working or something of the sort), it was my birthday early december and she text me the night before and left me a comment on my facebook early the next morning, and she kind of made a big deal out of it. This morning she texts me "Man do I miss you! I just saw you in (instert town name)" so I suggested that we hang out soon and she asked if I was going to my work holliday party on the 23rd and I said of course, I figured that was her way of getting out of hanging out with me or something but then we talked a little more and eventually she asked me what I was up to today, I proceded to tell her that I was pretty much free....and she never text me back. What is going through this girls head??? I mean I thought I missed that boat a while back but sometimes she seems to be a bit more friendly than just friends. I might add that she currently has a boyfriend. Im just kind of wondering how I should play my cards at the holliday party... Edited January 11, 2010 by LastKiss13
Yukikazi Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 If she has a bf then she is most likely attention whoring. As for your party.. she will probably bring her BF so I suggest you either bring some other girl or flirt with other women at the party except her.. just ignore her for the most part.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 (got stuck out in the woods and I had her get behind the wheel and stuff) Anybody else catch the innuendo, there? Or am I just sick and twisted? If she has a bf then she is most likely attention whoring. As for your party.. she will probably bring her BF so I suggest you either bring some other girl or flirt with other women at the party except her.. just ignore her for the most part. Totally agree with this. There isn't anything you can do but just ignore her and let her see you having fun and flirting with other females.
colosseum Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Totally agree with this. There isn't anything you can do but just ignore her and let her see you having fun and flirting with other females. Yes. She just wants attention. From the looks of things, you're always available, always wanting to meet with her, always there for her when she needs a self-esteem boost. If she really wants to see you she wouldn't blow off meetings and not reply texts. Sorry man, but yeah, you're being used like Tiger Woods used his hos. I assume that's not a position in which you would want to be, much less relative to a person whom you like. If you're still going to see the chick, then yes don't intend on being Tiger's ho and instead make your own enjoyable time and meet some great ladies. I would recommend you leave this one for good. Whether you get with her or not-in however many months it might be-, this--and I guarantee you this my friend-- is how she treats not only you, but other human beings as well. You want that kind of girl?
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