little_bear Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Yesterday marked the 2 week mark NC. I went out with my girlfriends last night, looked across the bar and saw one of his best friends watching me. We kind of stared at each other for a moment and then my friends and I left the dance floor. I could see his friend from behind and he was texting. About 30mins later HE shows up. My friends say he was watching me when I wasn't looking at him. Neither of us made any attempt to speak to the other. He kept walking over to about 10 feet away from me and turning his back to me. Seemed odd. It was very hard but I kept my cool and tried to act as though he didn't exist. I felt immature but there was no way I could have spoken to him when he was making no attempt to speak to me either. I feel so frustrated. This is so childish.
bananaboat11 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Yesterday marked the 2 week mark NC. I went out with my girlfriends last night, looked across the bar and saw one of his best friends watching me. We kind of stared at each other for a moment and then my friends and I left the dance floor. I could see his friend from behind and he was texting. About 30mins later HE shows up. My friends say he was watching me when I wasn't looking at him. Neither of us made any attempt to speak to the other. He kept walking over to about 10 feet away from me and turning his back to me. Seemed odd. It was very hard but I kept my cool and tried to act as though he didn't exist. I felt immature but there was no way I could have spoken to him when he was making no attempt to speak to me either. I feel so frustrated. This is so childish. Ah the joys of dating... no one ever thinks rationally in your situation.. I sure as hell didn't. You did good, hun. Pat yourself on the back and go buy yourself something nice to make yourself feel good. I did. Get a mani or pedi... or your hair done. I dyed my hair black and bought myself new middle finger rings + a new thumb ring. =) Good luck!
Northwesthunny Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 you done good hun and i bet he wasnt expecting you to act so cool WELL DONE!!
twinklecat Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Well done! ^^ It's a difficult situation to be in, but you do feel better for it. It's not immature but protecting yourself. I can relate as I see my ex round work now and then, and I ignore him too - but I guess it's easier for me to keep my cool as it's in a work environment ~twinkle
Ilovecake Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Yesterday marked the 2 week mark NC. I went out with my girlfriends last night, looked across the bar and saw one of his best friends watching me. We kind of stared at each other for a moment and then my friends and I left the dance floor. I could see his friend from behind and he was texting. About 30mins later HE shows up. My friends say he was watching me when I wasn't looking at him. Neither of us made any attempt to speak to the other. He kept walking over to about 10 feet away from me and turning his back to me. Seemed odd. It was very hard but I kept my cool and tried to act as though he didn't exist. I felt immature but there was no way I could have spoken to him when he was making no attempt to speak to me either. I feel so frustrated. This is so childish. Good for you for keeping your cool. I don't think you should feel frustrated or childish at all, you showed a crapload of willpower and you should feel powerful.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Wow you rock! I would have headed somewhere else the miute he walked in!
Author little_bear Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 I don't feel like I rock!!! I want to break NC so badly!!!!!!! I want these feelings to go away It kind of reminds me of when I got in a fight with this other guy I had dated previously. He sent me a blank text the next day and I responded asking why he sent it. He said "I really wanted to talk to you but didn't know what to say". Haha I would feel like crap though if I did that and he didn't respond. Baahhhhhh I wish I could turn my brain off
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