Water1 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Is dating the OW's ex-husband. Good idea, or dumb idea? What's your opinion?
whichwayisup Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Apparently they bonded during D-Day and the aftermath of their spouses affair. It's weird, but if they have found a connection and it's working for them, why not?
Spark1111 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I think it may be even more common that we know about. There is no one else who would understand your pain like the the OP's spouse. OUCH! During the commiseration of your spouse's winding up together, I suppose sympathy, empathy, friendship and then ....love is very possible.
bentnotbroken Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Interesting:lmao::lmao:OW's H in my case is a nice guy, but that would be too tooooooo weird.
freestyle Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Does anyone remember the Harrison Ford movie where he bonds with the widow of a man killed in the same plane crash that killed his wife? Then they slowly come to realize that their respective spouses had both been on that flight because they'd been affair partners? This situation brings that story to mind.........can't remember the name of the movie.............
JaneInVegas Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I can't imagine anyone cheating on Shania! wow! If they're finding some happiness and solace in each other, all the more power to them.
bentnotbroken Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I can't imagine anyone cheating on Shania! wow! If they're finding some happiness and solace in each other, all the more power to them. I couldn't imagine anyone cheating on her to begin with. But human nature gets more confusing as I get older.
Author Water1 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 I guess as many of us have found out, it's not looks that keeps our spouses with us. Do you think it's really moving on in that situation? Why keep the OW such a big part of your life - not only dealing with her as a part of your ex's life, but as a part of your new partner's life as well? How about the kids - how do you think they're affected? I can see how it would be comforting to talk to someone who "gets it", but there is no shortage of people out there who have walked this same path. And wouldn't it be nice to move on with someone who isn't a part of your painful past? Lots of angles on this....
tami-chan Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Is dating the OW's ex-husband. Good idea, or dumb idea? What's your opinion? I can understand it.....I guess they have similar tastes-except maybe one is the uglier version of the other.
Space Ritual Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Does anyone remember the Harrison Ford movie where he bonds with the widow of a man killed in the same plane crash that killed his wife? Then they slowly come to realize that their respective spouses had both been on that flight because they'd been affair partners? This situation brings that story to mind.........can't remember the name of the movie............. Random Hearts
hopesndreams Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I can't imagine anyone cheating on Shania! wow! If they're finding some happiness and solace in each other, all the more power to them. Yeah, if she was uglier it would be more understandable.
freestyle Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Random Hearts hey, thanks......... they something's the first thing to go...........I forget what........
Space Ritual Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I'm such a Doofus. I dint even know that Shania and Mutt Lange split up. Must have been awhile back
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Yeah shania twain is up there in my mental spank bank. She is smoking hot. i heard she's nice too, that's a rarity these days her ex was an a-hole. If the OW's Ex got enough game to get shania to come over and have a little fun. it's cool they single consenting adults right??? Also they might just be doing it to put the screws to their exes. I mean if your an OW, and you found out shania twain was sleeping with your ex husband. And you know she's smoking hot way better looking than you on your best day. You might get a bit insane. lol.
Space Ritual Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I just saw a pic of the chick Mutt left Shania for..she may be good from far...but far from good.
Woggle Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 Maybe they both tossed out the trash and got with each other. If they are both happy more power to them.
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