singleguy123 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I started seeing this girl last week, and we went out for lunch.. I met her through an internet dating site. We had a good lunch date, and she suggested we go out for dinner the same day, which we did.. We kissed alot that night, and she was all over me. We saw each other the following day, and more of the same.. We then made plans for thursday night, and she cancelled last minute. She then started iming me as soon as she got home that she is scared of falling in love, and wishes she kept the plans..We rescheduled for Friday.. Friday comes, and I call her at 7.. She says she is on the way home, misses me very much, and cant wait to see me..I wait, and recieve no call..I call her and no answer.. She ims me that night that once again she is very scared, and if i will please please talk to her again.. So Saturday we go out.. I see her and she kisses me immediately for about 5 minutes.. All night she is all over me. I get home, and she tells me how wonderful the date was, thank you so much etc etc.. We make plans (She asks me) to hang out on Sunday.. She also talks about me meeting her parents. Sunday, (today) she tells me she has a party yo go to she forgot about, and lunch with her parents. She keeps telling me she misses me..Then she says she does not feel well, and is sick.. Basically she keeps breaking plans, and has a hard time making plans.. But when with her, she is all over me, talking about the future, and non stop touching, kissing, and complimenting..She messages me as soon as she wakes up, and does not stop thoughout the day..What is going on?
stevejohnson1976 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 this all seems really fast.....she may be a little emotionally unstable... that being said, i wish some of the girls i took out on dates would act half that interested while together!!!
sagetalk Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I'd let this one play out if I were you . Be careful though, she could be crazy.
You'reasian Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I started seeing this girl last week, and we went out for lunch.. I met her through an internet dating site. We had a good lunch date, and she suggested we go out for dinner the same day, which we did.. We kissed alot that night, and she was all over me. We saw each other the following day, and more of the same.. We then made plans for thursday night, and she cancelled last minute. She then started iming me as soon as she got home that she is scared of falling in love, and wishes she kept the plans..We rescheduled for Friday.. Friday comes, and I call her at 7.. She says she is on the way home, misses me very much, and cant wait to see me..I wait, and recieve no call..I call her and no answer.. She ims me that night that once again she is very scared, and if i will please please talk to her again.. So Saturday we go out.. I see her and she kisses me immediately for about 5 minutes.. All night she is all over me. I get home, and she tells me how wonderful the date was, thank you so much etc etc.. We make plans (She asks me) to hang out on Sunday.. She also talks about me meeting her parents. Sunday, (today) she tells me she has a party yo go to she forgot about, and lunch with her parents. She keeps telling me she misses me..Then she says she does not feel well, and is sick.. Basically she keeps breaking plans, and has a hard time making plans.. But when with her, she is all over me, talking about the future, and non stop touching, kissing, and complimenting..She messages me as soon as she wakes up, and does not stop thoughout the day..What is going on? She's obviously interested in you. Congratulations. Why is she afraid to fall in love? When was her last relationship/date? Stuff to know - get to know her. Hear her out - but take your time. No need to rush into anything.
Author singleguy123 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Posted January 11, 2010 Tonight we talked and she told me that sometimes she needs to be alone, and that she is extremely sorry..She asked if I can just love her and have some patience. I really do not understand what is going on, as she is intelligent, educated, self sufficient, and a former model, now she is 32. She also tries to constantly figure out my long term intentions, and we just met. If I do not say the mushy stuff she says she then feels bad. Part of me tells me I have to make a stand and perhaps ignore her for a while to let her know cancelling plans is disrespectful to me. But after talking to her, and seeing her it is very difficult, and I try to understand what she is saying..
Zeegagge Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 This sounds like a wild ride. I'm not saying jump off by any means, Im just saying get a good helmet and maybe a safety harness. Have fun, for real man!
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