Ramen Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 i broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. unlike some of the other breakups here, mine didn't end so bad and im grateful for it. i broke up with her simply because i wasn't feeling it anymore. since then she has dated several guys. as for me, i didn't try to pursue anything with anyone out of the lack of interest. i still keep in touch with her as she is still my best female friend. just recently i've started to feel bad about it again causing me to lose a lot of sleep. i'm just wondering if anyone else is or has ever been in my position and how did you guys deal with it. thanks.
canadaman111 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 i broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. unlike some of the other breakups here, mine didn't end so bad and im grateful for it. i broke up with her simply because i wasn't feeling it anymore. since then she has dated several guys. as for me, i didn't try to pursue anything with anyone out of the lack of interest. i still keep in touch with her as she is still my best female friend. just recently i've started to feel bad about it again causing me to lose a lot of sleep. i'm just wondering if anyone else is or has ever been in my position and how did you guys deal with it. thanks. I haven't been in your position. How do you feel about her? If you would like it to be more then friends you should go for it.
alphamale Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 i still keep in touch with her as she is still my best female friend.. why are you still friends with an ex? just recently i've started to feel bad about it again .... feel bad about what?
Perhaps Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 i broke up with my ex a couple of years ago. unlike some of the other breakups here, mine didn't end so bad and im grateful for it. i broke up with her simply because i wasn't feeling it anymore. since then she has dated several guys. as for me, i didn't try to pursue anything with anyone out of the lack of interest. i still keep in touch with her as she is still my best female friend. just recently i've started to feel bad about it again causing me to lose a lot of sleep. i'm just wondering if anyone else is or has ever been in my position and how did you guys deal with it. thanks. I've SO been there and trust me... it got VERY ugly for me. If it's really bad, be honest with her and maybe she wants the same thing too. If not, you have to let the past be what it is - the past. Don't feel regret/guilt over it. You said the break up wasn't bad so hopefully, that will help. The longer I thought about it, the heavier the guilt and regret got. Don't let yourself slide there.
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