almostpassedit Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 In 80 days, it will make 24 months NC. In a little less than 3 months, it will be 2 years NC. 2 years since the day, I recieved that email that shattereted my world and began the begining of my mental break down. 2 years later, 3 one night stands, 2 rebound relationship's, 2 missed birthday's and 2 christmas's later, I am doing much better. That relatinoship took a big toll. I am only moving past it. Another year and I'll be completely healed. That female, never looked back. I don't feel anything, not even amazement, shock, hate, angry, love, nothing. It doesn't even hurt or sting anymore.
bananaboat11 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 In 80 days, it will make 24 months NC. In a little less than 3 months, it will be 2 years NC. 2 years since the day, I recieved that email that shattereted my world and began the begining of my mental break down. 2 years later, 3 one night stands, 2 rebound relationship's, 2 missed birthday's and 2 christmas's later, I am doing much better. That relatinoship took a big toll. I am only moving past it. Another year and I'll be completely healed. That female, never looked back. I don't feel anything, not even amazement, shock, hate, angry, love, nothing. It doesn't even hurt or sting anymore. Do you ever miss the pain? I mean... like... almost such as missing her?
xoxo88 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 OMG how could she break up with you via email??? That is so disrespectful and humiliating. Those who do lame break ups are trash in my opinion. Selfish cowards... When you want to break up with somebody it's ovious you don't care anymore. But you must tel them to their face you're breaking up with them. They deserve it. They deserve one final meeting. They deserve an explanation. My ex broke up with me via messenger. It's been more than half a year since the break up and i'm still horrified when i look back at what he did. Something like this won't go away. You won't ever forgive them and you shouldn't. You'll just get to the point where you no longer care.
bananaboat11 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 OMG how could she break up with you via email??? That is so disrespectful and humiliating. Those who do lame break ups are trash in my opinion. Selfish cowards... When you want to break up with somebody it's ovious you don't care anymore. But you must tel them to their face you're breaking up with them. They deserve it. They deserve one final meeting. They deserve an explanation. My ex broke up with me via messenger. It's been more than half a year since the break up and i'm still horrified when i look back at what he did. Something like this won't go away. You won't ever forgive them and you shouldn't. You'll just get to the point where you no longer care. Try being dumped via facebook...
twinklecat Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I guess at least my ex did it to my face, but then we were living together, so no other real way he could do it. He was a douche over the whole thing, but have been dumped via MSN and text in the past, and it aint fun! almostpassedit - I really do wish you well, you will move on and find someone so much better, who deserves to be with you
Author almostpassedit Posted January 12, 2010 Author Posted January 12, 2010 (edited) Hey guys thanks for the kind words but I'm passed everything now. I should change my nick to "PassedIt". No I do not know where she is. I wasn't really dumped via email. It was a long story behind that whole thing. To keep it short, the ex's best friend informed me she had moved on and was fawking some guy, which is odd considering she was upsptairs in "our" new apartment at the time working on paperwork and given the fact we had plans for the following month to go to flordia and considering how I was still sleeping with her.... Eitherway, pride kicked in and I said and did everything in my power to push her away but she wouldn't quit and she kept contacting me. It was like I kept sending her jabs and she was taking the punches and still coming. I was too weak and eventually the situtation turned around on me. I ended up feeling like the one who got dumped. She took all the power back somehow and just put the final nail in the coffin on us. ========= Now almost 2 years later, she's showing signs of interest. I moved to a new city and I don't have the money like before or my own place anymore. My head was severly messed up and I let everything go. Even if she was to come back, I couldn't take care of her like before and I don't think I would be able to trust her again, although deep within me I feel as if I could. Deep within me I also feel as if she was the one for me. For some odd reason, I don't feel a blockage anymore when thinking about her. For a long time though, I felt as if it was wrong to contact her, like she was in love with someone else and now, its like I think she's single. Eitherway, in the grand scheme of things, that ex didn't stick it out with me and she left me for another. I don't think that relationship worked out. It did last 2 years though so I guess she was happy with her decision. What more can I say? It's over. Everyone moved on. Only the memories remain and thats going too. Hopefully I won't run into her in this life. Atleast now, its dieing for me. The memories, that life, that relationship, the past. Its dieing out in my head. I think this moment is the best part of that break-up, knowing I'm almost free, a few more months and I won't remember. Edited January 12, 2010 by almostpassedit
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