sunshinee Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Hello:) I'm sorry if I have some mistakes but I'm bulgarian and my english is not excellent My ex and I broke up 2 months ago(we were together for a year and a half) 2 months he was calling me almost every night,saying he loves me,misses me but he doesnt want to be with me.He needed space and with me he couldnt get any.Every time when he sees that someone was commenting on my facebook we was yelling at me,because he was jealous.I didn't know what to do,I told him twice that I want him to come back but he refused.Yesterday he found out that I was going out with some of my friends from college and he called me.He was angry and told me that he won't bother me again,he won''t call again.Then I asked him ""You made up that story that u wanted space,you just wanted to get rid of me"" and he responded:''I wanted to get rid of your behaviour'' and i hung up on him. Today I called him because it was 10th our date and he acted like he doesn't care.then i blocked him on skype.I really really want him back but if i tell him that I want he refuses and when I act like I don't care he calls me over and over again but still doesn't want me back.Now he said that he will never call me again and it's over for good.I don't know what to do now I am 20 he's 21 for information
9Lives Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 He is immature and he doesnt know how to deal with his emotions. He still like you even tho he says he doesnt want to be together anymore. It is hard for him to see you moving on. I would keep dating and let him know that I am respecting the decision you made to break up. Let him know that you still like him but since he doesnt want to be together, you are dating other people. Thats it. Dont be confused...he is!!
Author sunshinee Posted January 10, 2010 Author Posted January 10, 2010 Yeah but now he is blocked on my skype and he said that he doesn't care any more.I know he cares because yesterday he told me that he loves me but still doesn't want to be with me.When I said that I am okay with that (i lied i'm not okay) he told me ""What,u don't want us to be together any more?"" well,it so selfish-he doesn't want me back but also he doesn't want me to move on.Ooh it's so confusing.I won't call him for now,I really want him to come back but the only way is...showing that i don't care:mad:
sunrae Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 I agree with 9lives, sounds like your ex is immature.... Sounds like he wants you to come running back to feed his ego.. He will keep being a yo-yo, if you let him and keep confusing you... It would be best to tell him you do care about him, but it's "his actions" that isnt fair to you, and he is either in your life or out of it... No coming and going.. It's not fair to you!
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