Is this a rebound?

[BTLC23]

Could six months after a breakup of a near four year relationship be considered a rebound relationship? This was myself and my exes first serious relationship, we were both virgins. She has been probably seeing the guy for a month or two, and we are not in contact. I am 20 and shes 24 and her new bf is 28, I guess i was to immature. I guess the best way to handle this is to ignore it completely, I bet most of you would agree.

[JaneDoe35]

In my opinion 6 months after a breakup is not a real rebound.

 

It is very hard to ignore when you discover your ex is in a new relationship.

 

Just be thankful that she didn't begin the relationship while you were still together.

 

Take care,

 

JD

[Howitzer]

Try not to think about it too much. At this point, you should be focusing on your life.

[BTLC23]

Thats it I don't know how long its been there was pics with him like a month ago and now their facebook official. Unless it hasn't really hit me much, I just don't care a lot. I'm glad that I actually know so that I can make better choices. I'm sure if I see lovely dovely pictures it will upset me, but I just think it doesn't mean **** compared to what we had, etc. Im 20 my ex is 24 and her bf is 28. I think this is also good because I had made a lot of mistakes in the past begging crying etc, but now on an important thing like new bf, I'm gonna play it cool. Im sure if she still cares she would want me to ask her who is this and make a big deal but I wont. It really isnt bad or it hasnt hit me yet.

[Lincoln007]

You just need to move on with your life and focus on how to develop on most important part of your life.

[BTLC23]

I found out about month ago that she started seeing him like a month or two after our relationship. We were together for about 3 years and lived together for 1.5 years. Does this constitute a rebound? I saw that she wrote I love you on his FB wall. **** FB