sadloser Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I go to an all boys school and dont really come in contact with girls my age. ever. There are only two girls i ever even kind of talk to, and neither will talk to respond to my texts. When i see them saying on facebook about how they went to parties or saying things like they love some boy i dont even know it tears me up inside and makes me depressed. it seems like everyone is in a relationship or has been except for me. it also bugss me how i never go to social events either because im not invited, or because id feel awkward there. I just cant seem to come in contact with any girls my age at all, especially since i dont relly have any friends who are girls. going to an all boys school is hell, but i cant leave. I fell like there is no hope for me and girls at all in the near future. I dont even want a relationship, just a friend who listens to me.
Angel1111 Posted January 11, 2010 Posted January 11, 2010 If you go to an all boys school, then you need other situations that give you the ability to meet other girls and make friends. The first thing that comes to my mind is to join a church. It doesn't have to be some hardcore church but just something that will give you a sense of community. If your parents don't want to go to a church or they don't want to take you, then maybe a friend from school goes to a church and lives close by you can pick you up and introduce you to others. Other than that, maybe you can join a sport where sexes are mixed - like swimming. What are you saying to these girls in your texts? Did they give you their cell phone numbers and then just ignore you? That doesn't make sense.
engravefeelthevoid Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 bro it was the same for me u reminded me of one of my older threads...firest of all how old are you ? second of all..WORK ON YOURSELF...go to the gym...clubs...parties etc...when u work on urself u will give urself a chance to improve as a person and it will also give u a chance to meet girls..... people get this wrong all the time they blame the fast that they cant meet girls and get into relat.s bc they suck...when its all about u not increasing ur chances...trust me on this one bro take it slow...start by going to the gym and exercising...then get some good guy friends and make everybody love you.socialise even with guys *characteristicds of an alpha male: protector of loved ones (could be younger school maktes or ur brothers) - leader of men - independent and confident work on you good luck
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