lonelymom1985 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 It's been almost 3 months since my common law husband and I broke up. I moved out of the house and have been terribly lonely since. We broke up because of the fights we had been having just weeks prior to us breaking up. We have two wonderful children together ages 2 & 1. I can't stop wanting him back! I miss him so much it hurts every single day. Everytime I look at him I feel so sad that I lost him. Is there any way to tell if he wants me back or even still has feelings for me? Is there still hope for us? Is there anyway we can both move on from this very sad part of our lives and be together? I want nothing more than to be a family again and to show him that I'm ready to change and will do anything to prove it.....
Don't_Think_Twice Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Is there any way to tell if he wants me back or even still has feelings for me? Have you asked him?
tojaz Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 It's been almost 3 months since my common law husband and I broke up. I moved out of the house and have been terribly lonely since. We broke up because of the fights we had been having just weeks prior to us breaking up. We have two wonderful children together ages 2 & 1. I can't stop wanting him back! I miss him so much it hurts every single day. Everytime I look at him I feel so sad that I lost him. Is there any way to tell if he wants me back or even still has feelings for me? Is there still hope for us? Is there anyway we can both move on from this very sad part of our lives and be together? I want nothing more than to be a family again and to show him that I'm ready to change and will do anything to prove it..... Not being an a$$ here, but have you thought of asking him??? Chance are he misses you just as much as you miss him. Pride makes you do some stupid things some time, but if you want to know.........ask. Communication starts right there. TOJAZ
tojaz Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Have you asked him? Doh! really should look twice before posting!:o
whichwayisup Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Two kids under the age of 3...Yes, both of you owe it them, as well as to yourselves to fix this and keep your family under one roof together. Couples therapy/marriage counselling can help you both. To learn how to communicate, to listen to one another, and most of all, not fight to the point of one of you walking out and ending it. I'm sure life is NOT easy with 2 kids, and your relationship has sufferd abit because of it.. But this is fixable, as long as it's something both of you want.
It_Is_What_It_Is Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I presume from your name you are 24 or 25. Pretty young with 2 kids under 3. Still have loads to learn. If the issues that caused the break up is as said, then you guys owe it to your kids to talk, listen and address the underlying issues. Pride is a killer.
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