innocenttears Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 Me and my boyfriend have taken a 2 week break to think about everything. I want him back at the end of the 2 weeks, but i'm so scared i'll be waiting and he'll just say i'm sorry, i don't want to be with you and i'll just be hopeful for nothing. Also how shall i handle these two weeks, not contact? Or just normal?
HLP234 Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 Take if from me and many others on here. I will never ever do a "break" ever again. My gf said the same thing and the break then lasted almost a month and a half. I sat here waiting trying to be like she wanted me to behave..then she all of a sudden left me, without even saying its over, I'm moving on. Did you ask for the break or did he? I would try and move on while you are on the break, and slowly detach from them. Hoping for anything will just make you hurt more..I know so because I had hopes that in the end we would talk it out..but she just bailed. So focus on yourself and just be a little selfish for your own good. Try to not think about it, go out and enjoy your life. So when he comes back and says something, you can be calm and say what you feel. During this time, take it to find yourself, and who you were before the relationship. I know its hard, I'm still having a horrible time dealing with my situation and I dunno how long it will take to heal but you have to keep your head up and move forward with yourself, protect yourself from the pain and others that may hurt you.
adamt Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 very few relationships survive a 'break'. after my experience i see it as a test to confirm if one person has checked out of the relationship rather than havign time apart to reflect and fix things. i would think about moving on, it may work out but dont be waiting about. if you want to be with someone you dont need time apart to work things out instead you would sit down and work it out together
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