xpaperxcutx Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 I have commitment issues. I've been accused of it by third party members. I'm not scared to get involve with a guy but I'm scared to jump into everything completely. My mindset right now is based on partying and sleeping around but if a guy starts to snuggle and treat me like something more, I get selfconscience and want to run away. I really hate feeling like I'm going to like the other person anything more than an acquaintance or a friend. It's like feeling like I'm going to lose control of my emotions ( I've had a few experiences where I got myself in a rut with liking a guy) and I'm scared of becoming smothering or psycho. Anybody ever felt like me? I can't help but think in terms of the long run where something eventually goes wrong and getting hurt because he wants to dump me.
zetkin Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 I feel like you right know, I'm also afraid of being hurt or hurting another person myself. I just think (or I want to think) that's is a phase and I'll get through it. Otherwise I don't see any solution...
Author xpaperxcutx Posted January 9, 2010 Author Posted January 9, 2010 I feel like you right know, I'm also afraid of being hurt or hurting another person myself. I just think (or I want to think) that's is a phase and I'll get through it. Otherwise I don't see any solution... How long have you felt like this? I've been like for two years. I'm really indifferent towards the need to be with someone completely, but then I also hate being alone.
zetkin Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 How long have you felt like this? No, me only for a bit more than a year )))
zetkin Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 I'm really indifferent towards the need to be with someone completely, but then I also hate being alone. And I feel like you too
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