carhill Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 God im an ugly undateable loser Me too; let's start a club. I have this sits bath pan...... Seriously, I dealt with this for years. The only way I escaped it was to develop a sense of humor about it and life in general. That didn't 'fix' anything but it certainly brought more happiness my way. The long-lasting positive social changes came from aligning myself with people who valued and respected me. Believing in oneself is good but we still function in the world of society and culture so, rather than struggle to fit in with the non-hemorrhoidal crowd, I chose to align myself with those who embraced their hemorrhoids and saw the true value in them. Or something like that....
dazzle22 Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 Give us an idea of what u look like or post a pic briefly so we have something objective to comment on..
Ruby Slippers Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 I won't ever set any of my friends up with other friends. It's too awkward if things don't work out.
jw90063 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Give us an idea of what u look like or post a pic briefly so we have something objective to comment on.. I agree with this.
skydiveaddict Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I just sat there and didnt say anyhting already realizng what shes sayign is im too ugly to be set up.. I dont even want to be set up but the fact that im not evne worhty of it,i must be hideous:sick: dude, your whole problem is YOUR attitide you are the typical "beta male" who gives a f..ck what anyone else thinks?
dreamergrl Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 SO what. How do you know the same reason for someone questioning him getting dates IS because he is lacking in the looks department? Maybe it's a personality issue or something else? Maybe it's always whining and crying about this or that and never trying to make a change.
skydiveaddict Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 (edited) I dont even want to be set up but the fact that im not evne worhty of it,i must be hideous:sick: You ARE worthy of it. stop beating yourself up. you can be anything /anyone you want. Test your limits, go for broke, be the man you never thought you could be. YOU CAN DO IT! You only get one shot in this life. DONT WASTE IT. If you're having problems w/ low self esteem or depression go see a Dr. there are medications that WILL help you! Edited January 10, 2010 by skydiveaddict
dazzle22 Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I repeat, you say you are ugly and undateable. That may not be true, just like an anorexic thinks she is "fat".. describe yourself... Even if you are, what I have seen in life is there seems to be a "lid for every pot"...there are some butt ugly women out there sporting wedding rings...
PJKino Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 Im in the same boat my female friends usually friends wives never tried to hook me up either.. Doesnt mean youre necessarily that hideous though,women tend to ovreinflate the looks of there female friends even if there ugly or fat.. WOmen tend to also want to only hook really good looking guys up because they judge by who they find attractive..
MissJoness Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 That's exactly why I don't like hanging out with ppl who are in serious relationships. They look down on single ppl like they are better
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