caseyjanetc Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now, and he cheated over a year ago, he told me the next morning to my face, but he still texted girls ect afterwards for at least 2months. a couple of weeks ago i couldn't take it anymore, feeling insecure and scared he will do it again, and then he started crying in the car, shaking, saying " why didnt you just dump me straight after i made the mistake?":eek: should i continue this relationship?
dazzle22 Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 He probably thought you could get over it and that is why he continued. Now he is being emotionally worn down by the fact that he can probably never make amends no matter what he does from now on. On the other side, I don't think I could get over this either. The water of this river is very "poisoned" and I think probably you both should set each other free and start over. Just an opinion, not necessarily what is right for you...
zetkin Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 Agree with the previous post. You shouldn’t continue with this relationship. I've been in the similar position myself (I mean in the position of your boyfriend). Maybe my insight would help. I really don’t know why I did it. At the moment I thought that I was just “curious” but I loved my bf and I was feeling really sorry and guilty and from that time I was good, well-behaved if you can say so. But later I understood I really didn’t love him - that was the real reason I cheated. We were very close but that wasn’t love. So we had to break up anyway but it was much harder then and it hurt him badly. I was hurt too and I'm still getting over it. So you better end it now, because the further you go the harder it will be.
sugarmomma Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 I've never been able to trust a cheater. I would move on to someone who values monogomy.
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