so_mo34 Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 have you ever been used by a guy for sex? and you had really strong feelings for them..how did you get over it? i work with this guy so i see him like 3 days a week.
OceanTropic Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 Well, I didn't sleep with this guy, but he did spend the night with me (just hardcore, half-naked making out). Unfortunately, I REALLY liked him after this, and I know he was somewhat interested, and he got my number but I havent heard from him since. How to get over it? Well think about it, if he only used you for sex, would you really want a relationship with this guy? The way I always make myself feel better is if the guy does something bad. If he used me for sex, then why would I like someone like that? Am I the kind of girl who wants to like men who are shallow like this? I guess it just takes time. Its bad enough that you see him 3 times a week, and if you won't fall inlove with him, I say use him for the sex too!! Why not? If you think your feelings for him will grow, then just ignore him. Speak to him only when he speaks to you, and focus on your work. Or better yet, imagine yourself with this guy, in a relationship. He would look at other women and maybe even cheat on you. Right now, you're ahead of the game and you haven't put yourself in this situation.
thats what i said Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 have you ever been used by a guy for sex? and you had really strong feelings for them..how did you get over it? i work with this guy so i see him like 3 days a week. Depends what you want to do about it. If you really want to move on, well sh*t, it's going to be really hard since you see him 3 times a week. Like OceanTropic said, only talk to him when you need to for work. Other than that, I would say pretend like nothing he did bothered you and ignore him otherwise.
Recommended Posts