Bryanp Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I wish you the best of luck. You are doing the right thing by seeing a lawyer. The actions of your wife clearly indicates that she has absolutely no respect for you whatsoever and has no problem lying and cheating on you. She seems to have had some perverse thrill about screwing your best friend and passing off his baby as yours. Nobody should have to settle for such a disrespecting wife and one who engages in such humiliating actions toward you. Please don't waste your life on someone who has such a broken moral compass. Her behavior toward you was simply reprehensible. You deserve better than this. I wish you luck.
Jeff1962 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I think you need to find a very good lawyer. Please look at the facts: 1. She was cheating on you. 2. She was cheating on you with your best friend behind your back. She engaged in a double betrayal which is the ultimate in disrespect and humiliation. 3. She was cheating on you with your best friend and did not even have the decency to use protection which meant she was putting your health at risk for STD's. 4. She didn't even bother to use other protection and allowed herself to get pregnant by this man. 5. She had no intention of ever telling you and was willing to let you believe that it was your child. Your wife has no respect for you whatsoever. It is ludicrous to believe that you could trust her. How much of a doormat could you possibly be. I don't mean to be harsh but please see an attorney to understand all of your options. Your wife is a real piece of work. You surely must not settle for this. I wish you luck. I could not have put it any better. KICK HER TO THE CURB.
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 I hope you have a good divorce. She doesnt deserve you and it isnt the kids' fault his momma's an idiot. Some women dont understand that they are some men who doesnt deserve to be tricked into being daddies. I mean what kind of sane woman would pass off a kid as her husband when she knows it's not. and when it comes out in the wash all she can say is sorry? I mean WTF was she thinking!?
mimidarlin Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 JE50, The father of the baby needs to be made responsible for child support. Even if you choose to stay in your marriage he should be paying. Deena
redtail Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 Just in case anyone was wondering. I'm going to see a lawyer when I get home next week. Thanks everyone for the advice. JE, best of luck to you. This will not be easy, but the right thing is often the difficult choice. I hope all the best for you having been through a divorce myself, and please know, the best years are still ahead of you. You can and will get through this, put it behind you and have a better life for you and your son. Take care.
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Author je50 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 Thanks everyone again. I talked to one lawyer this past fri. Im gonna talk to 2 more on mon. I am through with the whole situation. I agree with you mimidarlin. The father should be responsible for child support and as far as I know he hasnt been paying anything. I'm just tired of wondering whats going on while I'm gone. And what surprise I might be getting into when I get home. The only thing that I looked forward to was seeing my son when I got home. I'm gonna make the best of that and deal with this divorce one day at a time. Thanks again for all the advice everyone. This wasnt a easy decision to make for me because I am very family oriented. It means a great deal to me. But I just can't stay in this situation any longer. BryanP..Thanks for telling it like it is from the beginning. I really needed it. I'll be back with updates when I have em. l8r
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