turtle32 Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 I seen a lady on a friends facebook and i am new to facebook so really didnt know if it was cool asking to add people that you dont know. But i sent her a request and she added me went a couple days and she just liked one of my comments.So i got the neeve to sent her a message saying i would ike to get to know her better.The next day she anwsered and said that would be fine. So then we chatted about an hour had a good conversation. I sent her message the next day asking her how her day was and if she wanted to chat later to give me a yell. She anwsered when she got home and said she was tired didnt know if she would be on.She asked me how my day was and told me to have a goodnight.I anwsered her email.i havent sent anymore should i wait awhile i dont want to be topushy of seem desperate.should i wait see if she sayes something to me or make the next move? And for you women is this a good sign that she is intersted? Link to post Share on other sites
indie22 Posted January 9, 2010 Share Posted January 9, 2010 I seen a lady on a friends facebook and i am new to facebook so really didnt know if it was cool asking to add people that you dont know. But i sent her a request and she added me went a couple days and she just liked one of my comments.So i got the neeve to sent her a message saying i would ike to get to know her better.The next day she anwsered and said that would be fine. So then we chatted about an hour had a good conversation. I sent her message the next day asking her how her day was and if she wanted to chat later to give me a yell. She anwsered when she got home and said she was tired didnt know if she would be on.She asked me how my day was and told me to have a goodnight.I anwsered her email.i havent sent anymore should i wait awhile i dont want to be topushy of seem desperate.should i wait see if she sayes something to me or make the next move? And for you women is this a good sign that she is intersted? She seems to be interested, not as much as you are yet though. Im sure she would have spoken with you no matter how tired she is (thats just how I view it). Anyways, just wait a minute, let her warm up to ya. Link to post Share on other sites
Author turtle32 Posted January 11, 2010 Author Share Posted January 11, 2010 well she has responded to my messages the past couple day not always real speedy i guess maybe i am sending mine to quick so im going to let time go by and not say anthing to her to not look eager but think i should maybe ask her if she might be interested in meeting for lunch or maybe i should ask for her number, but asking for her number seems real pushy. i dont know if she is interetsed or being nice but im thinking since she dont know me if she wasnt interested she would just blow me off. how long should i wait to respond or send message and how long should i wait to ask her if she wanted to go out? Link to post Share on other sites
Kizzyfur Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 You also have to keep in mind that not everyone is able to or just doesn't get on every day. That may be the reason her messages aren't as speedy as you'd like. Link to post Share on other sites
DiscoChick Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 You also have to keep in mind that not everyone is able to or just doesn't get on every day. That may be the reason her messages aren't as speedy as you'd like. Yep. I do get on everyday, but to play Mafia Wars. Sometimes, I'm on and off so fast I don't even notice I have messages. And facebook mobile is crap. I get alerts...days after the fact. On topic: Pursue her, but don't be overbearing. I mean, saying hey is good, but just don't overwhelm her. Link to post Share on other sites
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