so_mo34 Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 so i really like this guy at work who i was seeing on/off. today is my birthday but a friend at work yesterday got me a card and had people sign it for me. everyone signed it including the guy i like. but he never actually wished me happy birthday in person he just asked when it was (when i had already told him), and hasn't even texted me today to wish me one. do you think thats kind of mean? or does it count that he wrote happy birthday on the card and that was it?
Yukikazi Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Why do you believe you deserve to be singled out for a special birthday wish? You like him.. do you have an idea if he likes you or even acknowledges you beyond co-worker? Unless you've known this guy for awhile.. be happy with the bday card. If that hadn't been there you may not have gotten anything. Is this a crush or is there some moments going on?
Author so_mo34 Posted January 8, 2010 Author Posted January 8, 2010 Why do you believe you deserve to be singled out for a special birthday wish? You like him.. do you have an idea if he likes you or even acknowledges you beyond co-worker? Unless you've known this guy for awhile.. be happy with the bday card. If that hadn't been there you may not have gotten anything. Is this a crush or is there some moments going on? we were seeing each other on/off. not in a relationship or anything just hooking up. he always talks to me at work too. if i didn't like this guy or barely knew him then i wouldn;'t care. it just hurts my feelings.
Yukikazi Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 we were seeing each other on/off. not in a relationship or anything just hooking up. he always talks to me at work too. if i didn't like this guy or barely knew him then i wouldn;'t care. it just hurts my feelings. And you felt none of this would have been pertinent to include in your first post? You are in a ****buddy relationship.. that means no feelings. Unless he is actually dating you.. he has no obligation to say anything beyond the card.. ****ty as that may be. Should he say something.. yea.. if you've already given it up for him.. is he under emotional need to do so.. no. Perhaps you need to reexamine your relationship with him before you start to get hurt over how far he cares when you never established that yet.
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