Mattock5656 Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 (edited) Hello guys. Well, I went on a date Wednesday night with a girl that seemed quite interesting. We agreed to meet halfway at a Italian restaurant that I set up. She drove at least 20 minutes to meet up, and the night went pretty well. The conversations flowed really well, their were no awkward moments/silents, and we had a lot of similar interests. For the most part, she held eye contact and the night went on for about 2 hours. As the night came to a end, I asked her if she was up for a second date, (as I thought she was really interesting) She said, "Ya, sure..this weekend I might be busy, although maybe Sunday, I'll be available for a bit. Either way, give me a text or call." I gave her a hug, and then she then drove home. The question is, she didn't ever really mention she had a good time, possibly is she that in-direct? I sent her a text the day after, asking about the cold ass weather we have in Texas now, and she replied about how she felt about it blah blah. Then about 8 hours later (the same day) I wrote a text that said , "I had a good time last night, and she looked good." Although, no reply. Should I wait about two days to call her now? or just take as she is not interested? Am I over-analyzing the situation? Edited January 8, 2010 by Mattock5656
Author Mattock5656 Posted January 8, 2010 Author Posted January 8, 2010 Bump, what you do you guys think?
DustySaltus Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 When you texted her that first time you should've asked her about Sunday. Send her a text tonight asking about it again and then back off. Let her come to you. If you don't hear from her by the day you were supposed to go out it's probably safe to say that she exited stage left. If she has time to respond to your texts about the weather, she has time to respond to your text about her in general. Just do what I said and let nature take its course.
Author Mattock5656 Posted January 8, 2010 Author Posted January 8, 2010 When you texted her that first time you should've asked her about Sunday. Send her a text tonight asking about it again and then back off. Let her come to you. If you don't hear from her by the day you were supposed to go out it's probably safe to say that she exited stage left. If she has time to respond to your texts about the weather, she has time to respond to your text about her in general. Just do what I said and let nature take its course. Actually, I was gonna wait till she responded to that last text, than ask her what particular activities she likes? Then I was gonna go to ask her if Sunday is still good or another day.
DustySaltus Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Actually, I was gonna wait till she responded to that last text, than ask her what particular activities she likes? Then I was gonna go to ask her if Sunday is still good or another day. You may be waiting a while. You have to be assertive and take charge. Didn't you find out what she likes when you were talking to her for two hours? Surprise her. Just send a text asking her when she is free sunday and that's it. Trust me.
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