BreakingUpIsCrap Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Hi all, this week kicked off with a txt from the ex. It was cleverly worded to make herself feel better. Yesterday she sent a full apology for slagging me off and saying hurtful things to me. Citing anger and disappointment as the reasons behind this anger,resentment and disrespect towards me. Question,why is she going down this rd? What's her next move? And should i maintain NC? If she calls or we meet and wants to talk (she's a talker!) I plan to say that i'll contact her when ready to talk,is this ok?
0hpenelope Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 If she calls or we meet and wants to talk (she's a talker!) I plan to say that i'll contact her when ready to talk,is this ok? Yes. Actually, it's more than okay. It's an excellent idea. Specify your boundaries and stick to them. She let you go, so she should know that you won't be around waiting for her. She made her bed: she should get comfortable in it.
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