control24 Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I've been dating this person for almost 2 years. Recently he began acting like an immature guy which is different from how he has been acting the last 6 months. The holidays came around and he seemed distant. Lots of friends in town for the holiday. I was busy myself but still would have made time for us to get together. Out of nowhere he began acting like he used to over a year ago. Spending more time w/ friends, choosing them over me. I finally ended it but we haven't talked at all. Sadly I left him a voicemail because we haven't talked. i don't understand how this came to this point.
LovelyDaze Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I've been dating this person for almost 2 years. Recently he began acting like an immature guy which is different from how he has been acting the last 6 months. The holidays came around and he seemed distant. Lots of friends in town for the holiday. I was busy myself but still would have made time for us to get together. Out of nowhere he began acting like he used to over a year ago. Spending more time w/ friends, choosing them over me. I finally ended it but we haven't talked at all. Sadly I left him a voicemail because we haven't talked. i don't understand how this came to this point. Sad to say but people do relax in a relationship and change. How long have you guys not talked? If it's been several days, you can still call and see if you guys either want to work it out or split for good. Don't leave it in limbo. Fix it or cut it.
Author control24 Posted January 10, 2010 Author Posted January 10, 2010 i tried to reach out to fix things just after it happened. but i haven't heard anything. so i finally decided to send a text (how tacky right?!) this was on thursday. after not having any response since tuesday just figured his actions showed he could have cared less. so i took back the control and ended it since he wasn't returning calls or texts. so that's it. i know he will call, i'm just not sure how i'll handle it. right now it's probably best that he doesn't call. i'm too annoyed.
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