grfins Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Quick background. Still in hell after 4 months as wife moved out to find herself, hes only a friend, and trying to find her happiness. She must have read the same cheaters books as many others. Anyway they have lied, deceived, and betrayed me and OMs wife as well. Now they are living together for those 4 months. The pain and anguish have only just begun to subside a wee bit. Anger is still strong but i cant help but smile at the karma coming back aruond so quickly to them. She took the good car and guess what, it broke down($1000). She then lost all her keys and 2 weeks later he did too.ha ha .Noise issues with neighbors and cops out 2 different times. I let her stay on my insurance untill jan first. Well Jan 3rd they find a lump in her breast$ and Jan5 more tests and its just a lymph node(no insurance) Other man has to send most all of his check to wife and kids for support. My wife now makes 8$ hour at a place she hates to work at for only25 hours. All of this has happened in 1 month. She doesnt have that bouncy upity attitude of 3 months ago. Now i sensed their relationship would have problems but I figured it would take years for karma to come get em. It can only get worse from here right? Myabe that old saying what comes around goes around is true or is it just coincidence and they will bounce back? Meanwhile my elevator is going up albiet slowly but up none the less and I may be seeing hers soon coming down to harsh reality. Im still a mess but at least im in my new cloths, freshly painted house, my therapist, my antidepressants, my bible thumping, and support groups to help me watch this train wreck happening with the x and OM. Is it wrong to take such pleasure in the rapid deteriation of the lying, cheating, cowards? Now I dont wish death on them but some well placed poison ivy could make things more interesting.Huh? Karma... yeah maybe it is real!
G-O Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Karma is real. Hope things go well for you. I don't have the met another guy thing to deal with yet but I do have the I need to figure out who I am problem.
imagine Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I do not believe in Karma. This may be a kind message from God to get her act in order. The message is to her not you. Don't be shy to announce her wayward behaviour to all family and friends. Ask them to "help" support your marriage.
2.50 a gallon Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Karma, I have seen it happen too many times, to not think that something is there. It is only human to enjoy the misfortune that comes bouncing back. To that I say. "Oh Gee! That's too bad."
seibert253 Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I dont' believe in coincedence, chance, Karma, but I do believe in devine intervention. Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's not, and sometimes it never materializes. It's not up to me, and my judgement means nothing. He's the ultimate judge. It's not compassionate, but it sometimes sure feels good when the crap hits the fan and ends up in the other persons face.
TaraMaiden Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 (edited) It might be Karma, or it might not. As a Buddhist, I feel I can speak with some authority about this... karma is all about being bitten on the @$$ BY your sins, not for them... And whilst Negative Karma can be perpetuated by negative thoughts words and actions, it can also be also be dispelled by positive thoughts, words and actions. so nobody can actually ever really tell whether 'current events' are as a result of previous acts, becauise whilst we might like to think they are, to make ourselves feel better, and to have a sense of justice, and a wrong made right - bear in mind they also think/say/do what could be defined as positive things. So that generates Positive Karma. Which is just as valid as the negative one.... let me also add this....if we look at the 'bad things that happened to us... that's also our Karma, isn't it? So... what did YOU do to deserve what happened to you? If we want to look at Karma as a judgemental force that punishes... then we obviously also fall into that equation.... if we want to look upon Karma as a natural process with no agenda, save as a reflection of what we think/say/do.... that's obviously easier to understand. Star by thinking good thoughts. They transmit into good words and translate into good deeds. That's one sure way to make sure nothing bites you on the @$$. Edited January 8, 2010 by TaraMaiden
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