Sunrain Posted December 26, 2003 Posted December 26, 2003 I used to go to a family members home for all the holidays. I have had a lot of illness over the past few years and because I didn't always make it on the holidays my family member quit inviting me. I mentioned it and he said why don't I start asking him when I want to come over. So I emailed him about it one holiday and did not get a reply. I don't feel comfortable going where I have not been invited. He tells other family members that I am always invited yet he calls them and invites them and not me any more. I don't believe I am always invited when I am not invited. I just feel that I cannot go if he does not ask me. I feel I am being punished for being ill at times and don't think it's fair. The family member and I since this has been going on have not had a good relationship. It seems he is very spiteful and stubborn. After all these years of being invited and then being snubbed. It hurts. How would you feel if you were me?
moimeme Posted December 26, 2003 Posted December 26, 2003 Snubbed and hurt. Unfortunately, we don't get to pick our relatives.
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