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10 years and pregnant...feel like time to call it quits


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hi all i just broken up with my boyfriend of 10 years i got to say that we have had a rocky 10 years it hasnt bee the best releastionship but it was my first everything...we have an 11 month old together and now i am 2 months pregnant and i cant take it anymore...its constantly fighting, he has always put me down about my weight expecially when he drinks he likes to tell me how girls love him that i should be luck to be with him, there has been some abuse in the relationship its safe to say there is an insicdent once every year but not exessive which is no excuse but there has been a lot of verbal abuse...i put up with it for so long and now i not sure whats different but i just cant do it anymore and am ready to move forward on my my own with my kids, thing is im scared and confused and not sure if i am doing the right thing i do love him its just i feel he is never going to change i can write you a book of the things that i put up with and the things that i have done for this man that will have you like WOW but i have finally givein in and am ready to move on but begining a break up so early in my pregnancy is scaring me and im constatly crying and feeling depressed andy advice would be appriciated.

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Do you have any family who could support you, or at least be there for you?

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yeah i have my sister who knows what is going on and supports me with whatever descion that i make. its been getting worse expecially during the holidays i spent it without him for christmas and new years cause he went out with his cuz who just got released from jail and partied it up with him, it sucks that it is so easy for him. my parents are very supportive as well. ever since his cuz came out it has gotten worse and everytime he goes out with im he gets drunk its messed up.

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Try to stay as calm and collective and healthy as possible for your children. If it means seeking help from someone, by all means get it. I wish I could have listened to my own advice after my breakup. My ex boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me a little over a month ago and the week before we broke up I found out I was a month pregnant and ended up losing my child because of the stress. I went through it all alone, he didn't know, my family didn't know. Don't let it happen! Stay positive!!! I'm sure you have a strong support system, lean on them!!

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I like to so families stay together, but if there is abuse you may have to end it. Like has already been stated make sure you have some help and support from friends and family. You have to make sure your kids come first right now.

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