jeffery Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 i was with this amazing girl for 2 and a half years, then she wanted to be single as we are both young at heart, i agreed let her do what she wanted, then she starts a new relationship within 2months of the break up, anyway nearly for months has passed since she is with this new fella and she wont stop emailing me or texting me, sayin how she really miss me,everything about us, and she says i cant not have you in my life, that she thinks about all the time...then i tell her how i feel bac,that i feel the same way then she says i duno what i want because i with tom (her boyfriend) but she keeps texting/emailing me stuff and i have said i'd rather have no contact with her... then she text's my sister saying we should go out for a drink or something and that my ex is always there for her....would it have anything to do with sex...me not preforming?
Silver_star Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Turn the tables to my perspective (being female) and if a guy left me to go be single cause he was "young at heart" what it is really saying is he is done with me. He was with me for a while, he had his fun and now hes bored. Its not that he doesnt want a relationship, but he just doesnt see one with me. The same applies for you. If she left you and then 2 months later was seeing a different guy she was obviously not digging the relationship she had with you enough to stay, and you deserve more than that. She is now using this guy for whatever reason, and taking you along for the ride so she has now TWO men under her thumb. You reallly wanna be her doormat if she decides she wants to come back and do that again?
sean1970 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 i was with this amazing girl for 2 and a half years, then she wanted to be single as we are both young at heart, i agreed let her do what she wanted, then she starts a new relationship within 2months of the break up, anyway nearly for months has passed since she is with this new fella and she wont stop emailing me or texting me, sayin how she really miss me,everything about us, and she says i cant not have you in my life, that she thinks about all the time...then i tell her how i feel bac,that i feel the same way then she says i duno what i want because i with tom (her boyfriend) but she keeps texting/emailing me stuff and i have said i'd rather have no contact with her... then she text's my sister saying we should go out for a drink or something and that my ex is always there for her....would it have anything to do with sex...me not preforming? Read the link in my signature if you have not already.
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