Author Awesome Username Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 you just have to go to the right places...there are plenty of attractive single men in your age range. think like a single dude...where would you hang out? Maybe a science museum or a home depot! Orrrr a place where people swing golf clubs and hit a bunch of balls on the field! It's not really a golf course, but it almost looks like one...one of those things. Or even better, a charity event! Good point Alpha: location location location!
alphamale Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Good point Alpha: location location location! when there is a big ball game on TV many single men hit the sports bars...i mean if you go at that time there will be 100 men and like 4 women in the place...it'll be like shooting fish in a barrell
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 when there is a big ball game on TV many single men hit the sports bars...i mean if you go at that time there will be 100 men and like 4 women in the place...it'll be like shooting fish in a barrell This is so true, the male female ratio is usually 75-25 out in places generally. Just grab a GF for a wingman and go to the nicer adult bars near you later in happy hour. Dress casually in flattering clothes that don't look too dressy. Sit at the bar, don't get too wrapped up in conversation with your friend, don't drink too much or sit too close together. Have an open posture and expression on your face. You will meet lots of men in your parameters, it is just that simple, pretty much a cakewalk.
shadowplay Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 This is so true, the male female ratio is usually 75-25 out in places generally. Just grab a GF for a wingman and go to the nicer adult bars near you later in happy hour. Dress casually in flattering clothes that don't look too dressy. Sit at the bar, don't get too wrapped up in conversation with your friend, don't drink too much or sit too close together. Have an open posture and expression on your face. You will meet lots of men in your parameters, it is just that simple, pretty much a cakewalk. What if you don't want to meet the kind of guy who'd typically hang out at a sports bar? I could be wrong, but I get the sense the OP may be going for a more offbeat, intellectual type.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What if you don't want to meet the kind of guy who'd typically hang out at a sports bar? I could be wrong, but I get the sense the OP may be going for a more offbeat, intellectual type. ALL kinds of guys hit the sports bars when a big game in on TV. Doctors, lawyers, plumbers, teachers....
AD1980 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 ALL kinds of guys hit the sports bars when a big game in on TV. Doctors, lawyers, plumbers, teachers.... That is true its unfair to group all sport fans into the same testosterone driven mongoloids with no culture
alphamale Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Good point Alpha: location location location! AU...during the upcoming NFL playoff games make sure you hit the sports bars. Guys will be all over the place like cockroaches
Author Awesome Username Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 AU...during the upcoming NFL playoff games make sure you hit the sports bars. Guys will be all over the place like cockroaches Like cockroaches....Hahahahaha!!! Yay!
AD1980 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 AU...during the upcoming NFL playoff games make sure you hit the sports bars. Guys will be all over the place like cockroaches Ill be at a bar watching my Jets Saturday..Any ladies want an ugly guy to buy them a drink and they can disappear ill be available:laugh:
zhsoj Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 ALL kinds of guys hit the sports bars when a big game in on TV. Doctors, lawyers, plumbers, teachers.... True, even us software engineers sometimes do. Though frankly I don't much care about the game; I enjoy the company, the booze, and inappropriately criticizing people for playing poorly... ...Then again a lot of my engineering brethren absolutely detest football.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What if you don't want to meet the kind of guy who'd typically hang out at a sports bar? I could be wrong, but I get the sense the OP may be going for a more offbeat, intellectual type. Did I mention sports bars? (I don't like em either) Every college, hospital, law firm, software house, etc. has a local hangout where people go after work to unwind. If you want to meet offbeat, intellectual types, look for a concentration of those types of businesses (tech alley, entrepreneurial incubator areas) and then survey the land for where people go after work. Could be a bar, restaurant, etc. Go there. Sit at the bar. Look attractive and approachable. You will be approached. Don't stay late or you will be in drunkville. Have a rotation of places in the same area and have a club soda at each one. Carry a female wingman who has the same objectives you do. No one will give a woman a hard time for not spending any real money, so you needn't spend much. You will generally be the beneficiary of a 75-25 or higher M/F ratio, so unless you are extremely flatulent and wearing a burka (even then), this technique should work swimmingly.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Have a rotation of places in the same area and have a club soda at each one. no, have a rotation of places in the same area and have a vodka martini at each one...a little bit of "social lubricant" never hurts when meeting the opposite sex
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 no, have a rotation of places in the same area and have a vodka martini at each one...a little bit of "social lubricant" never hurts when meeting the opposite sex True, if one has the control to keep it at that. Otherwise it turns into a drinking night out and not a meeting night out. Women don't need as much social lubricant as men in the process because their role is generally more passive and less intimidating. For women out to meet, I recommend no booze and rotating between 3-4 places. Removing booze allows you to do it a couple nights a week with no ill-effects and less expense. Personally, if I am out to meet, I don't drink at all, not a drop. I'm one of those people who is much less charming than he thinks he is when drunk. Not drinking also saves a ton of cash, and keeps you capable of operating an automobile in case you need to drive to the next place with her or take her home.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 For women out to meet, I recommend no booze and rotating between 3-4 places. when a guy sees a chick in a bar not drinking alcohol and immediate red flag goes up....things that come to my mind are "boring", "uptight", "probably a librarian", "not fun" and "why is this chick in a bar and not drinking?"
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 when a guy sees a chick in a bar not drinking alcohol and immediate red flag goes up....things that come to my mind are "boring", "uptight", "probably a librarian", "not fun" and "why is this chick in a bar and not drinking?" What, are you running up and tasting their drink? Last I checked a club soda looks just like a vodka soda. Also, these days, lots of people who have to drive later don't drink at all. Now you are right, that when men see a drunk woman, they smell blood in the water, but it's not exactly a "wow look how drunk she is, wonder if she wants to be my GF" thought process going on then.
CaliGuy Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What, are you running up and tasting their drink? Last I checked a club soda looks just like a vodka soda. Also, these days, lots of people who have to drive later don't drink at all. Now you are right, that when men see a drunk woman, they smell blood in the water, but it's not exactly a "wow look how drunk she is, wonder if she wants to be my GF" thought process going on then. That's not necessarily true. I had a completely drunk (and attractive) woman hanging all over me a couple weeks ago at a club and I was super turned off. Nothing and I mean NOTHING was attractive about her drooled speech and sl*tty behavior, even if she kept shoving her boobs in my face. It was just not classy. Classy > Sl*tty.
xbluudevilx Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What, are you running up and tasting their drink? Last I checked a club soda looks just like a vodka soda. Also, these days, lots of people who have to drive later don't drink at all. Now you are right, that when men see a drunk woman, they smell blood in the water, but it's not exactly a "wow look how drunk she is, wonder if she wants to be my GF" thought process going on then. i didnt know there was a vodka soda..
MeganDoll Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Ill never settle for less then a hottie,tried it once and every time the relationship had a rough spot im thinking to myself why am i gonna put up with this for a guy im not that attracted to?Maybe if he was hot it would be worth it so i brkoe up bvecause it wasnt fair to me or him wasting both our time Allot of my friends are miserable with average ugly Joe Blows and have to cheat on the side because these mediocre guys do nothing for them on a physical level but they though at the time they couldnt do better Ladies never settle for an ugly man you deserve the best
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 That's not necessarily true. I had a completely drunk (and attractive) woman hanging all over me a couple weeks ago at a club and I was super turned off. Nothing and I mean NOTHING was attractive about her drooled speech and sl*tty behavior, even if she kept shoving her boobs in my face. It was just not classy. Classy > Sl*tty. Well I agree with you, but I doubt the wolfpack of guys itching for you to leave so they could have a chance with her would, especially the dude who took her home and banged her after she got done throwing up all over his bathroom floor. But you make a good point that it's best to stay more sober when you are trying to meet quality people. Only the immature and other alcoholics think drunks are sexy or funny.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Ill never settle for less then a hottie,tried it once and every time the relationship had a rough spot im thinking to myself why am i gonna put up with this for a guy im not that attracted to?Maybe if he was hot it would be worth it so i brkoe up bvecause it wasnt fair to me or him wasting both our time Allot of my friends are miserable with average ugly Joe Blows and have to cheat on the side because these mediocre guys do nothing for them on a physical level but they though at the time they couldnt do better Ladies never settle for an ugly man you deserve the best Starting to think you are actually a guy. Post something only a woman would post and prove me wrong.
MeganDoll Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Starting to think you are actually a guy. Post something only a woman would post and prove me wrong. If my straightforwardness offends you then dont read my posts.Ill always say whats on my mind and wont bite my tongue for anyone sorry
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 i didnt know there was a vodka soda.. Yes, Virginia, there is a vodka soda. It exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there was no vodka soda.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 If my straightforwardness offends you then dont read my posts.Ill always say whats on my mind and wont bite my tongue for anyone sorry Score: MeganDoll is a girl 6 MeganDoll is a teenage guy trolling and pretending to be a girl 7
Yamaha Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Score: MeganDoll is a girl 6 MeganDoll is a teenage guy trolling and pretending to be a girl 7 Jackpot......
DiscoChick Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 The guys that I am attracted to aren't taken...they just never notice me. lol I mean, they notice me. I have my own fashion sense, and I've been told I have a loud laugh; however, it's not very often that a guy I am really attracted to notices me. It's always the ones with horrible use of English that dress slouchy and have ten kids. I don't like kids. I don't understand ebonics. I don't find a man with his pants hanging below his butt attractive. I want a simple guy that wants to enjoy life as much as I do. I want to listen to KC and the Sunshine band on Saturday nights and dance in the light of multiple lava lamps and a disco ball. I haven't gotten the disco ball yet, but I'll get around to it. haha.
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