CaliGuy Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Nope. I want a guy with a big penis. I never had a guy like that & would love to be able to brag about actually having a man who is large At least you're honest, MJ!
OceanTropic Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Yes I would. I mean, he has his hands and a mouth too. Worst comes to worst, there is always the sex shop
Boundary Problem Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 On the upside, a small penis makes anal sex a breeze. on him? Men with large penises are stabled by women as studs. Wouldn't you rather a smaller penis and know that she is dating you for you, rather than "what" you are?
prettybaby Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I don't know, I've never been with a guy who had a penis that small (size of a pinkie finger, seriously? Does that exist?). I guess I'd have to try it out and see how it feels, but if the sex sucks because of it, I'd feel frustrated. Not sure if I'd leave if he was perfect in every other way. I guess I would definitely invest in a dildo though.
Crazy Magnet Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Well honestly, I encountered one that was almost that small. I was not in love with him or anything, and I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him....EVER. So, I guess it's a deal breaker for me since it obviously was. His was shorter than the width of my four fingers and so small around..... I should mention he played basketball at a Division 1 school, so he was very tall and muscular....with an itty bitty....oh, it looked funny. At least I didn't laugh out loud.
CarrieT Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I doubt I could maintain a relationship with a guy whose penis is that small. It has never been an issue with me but there is a guy I slept with a year ago who wanted to continue seeing me and I broke it off with him because there just wasn't enough there to give me an orgasm. Even though he could make up for it in other ways, I'll admit it wasn't quite enough. Just short of asking him "is it in," was enough for me to know that if we couldn't have a fulfilling sex life, we probably wouldn't have a satisfying relationship in other ways.
bac Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What kind of condoms do you use for a small penis? Are you sure that he had an erection when you measured his inches?
donnamaybe Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I agree with SS... it also makes 'oral' (deep throat) a breeze too.. How can you deep throat it if it can't even REACH your throat to begin with? I have to have a man with a size big enough that I can feel it. Average is fine, but HUGE I wouldn't care for. But pinky size? Nope.
RedDevil66 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I very much love "Da penis" and would not be with a man with a small penis. Intercourse is a huge part of my attraction. There are many women who dislike intercourse so men with small penises would work for them.
Crazy Magnet Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What kind of condoms do you use for a small penis? Are you sure that he had an erection when you measured his inches? I can definitely tell the difference between a flaccid, semi-erect, and erect penis.
RedDevil66 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 It wouldn't be a deal breaker. Most women don't orgasm from straight penertration anyway. I don't and can't O from intercouse but I get VERY aroused by giving a BJ to a nice size penis and just love the feel of a larger one. Not BIG, I hate big, I like 4" to 6" I had a guy once who was over 9" and I was hurting.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I can definitely tell the difference between a flaccid, semi-erect, and erect penis. Have you all been talking about ERECT penises all this time? I assumed the pinkie ones being discussed were flaccid. Hell I'm HUGE then. <<puffs chest out and struts on down the street whistling and smiling like the guy in the Enzyte commercial
Stung Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Many years ago I dated a guy who had roughly those proportions. The first time I saw it I was surprised as I'd never seen an erection that small, but I kept my reaction to myself and gave it the old college try. There was definitely some sensation lacking, but I was very attracted to him and at the time he was an attentive boyfriend and a thoughtful lover in other ways, so I decided it didn't really matter that much. A short while later, however, he stopped being very giving in the oral/manual dept. Once the thrill of newness started to wear off and he got comfortable he seemed to think I should just be happy to be f*cking him because he was gorgeous, and he didn't need to keep trying. Since I couldn't get off on penetration with him and he wasn't trying to get me off in other ways that became a BIG problem. I put up with it longer than I should have because I was young and not very sexually confident yet. I broke up with him a few months later for other reasons, but I probably would have ended the relationship due to the quality of the sex sooner or later, also. I liked him but we weren't in love so holding on struggling to make a huge sexual incompatability work would have been pointless.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I haven't read this entire thread - just the posts on the first page. But I'm going to be honest and probably shallow. My answer is 'no.' It would be a huge turn-off just like a woman can weigh 400 lbs and be some guy's "dream woman in every other way" and he still wouldn't touch that. XBF of mine was small - bigger than even the dimensions you gave, and it was very disappointing. My attraction to him lessened for several reason, but I strongly believe this was one of them.
counterman Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 SoulSearch, how small are we talking about here? your xbf that is I thought it was all about compatability. Don't think one the size of a little finger and width about the same exists
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 SoulSearch, how small are we talking about here? your xbf that is I thought it was all about compatibility. Don't think one the size of a little finger and width about the same exists Hmmm. Hard to remember EXACTLY (last time I saw it was back in July...LOL). But I guess for comparison's sake - I could take him all the way into my mouth and he didn't hit the back. LOL If I had to guess on girth, I'd say somewhere between a quarter and 50-cent piece (the round dimension...not the flat dimension...obviously...LOL).
FindingE Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I have been there, he was such a great guy, put chicken soup and a get well card in my mailbox when I got sick, was a gentleman, hard worker. But, when we got to that point about 3 months into the relationship. I literally could not feel it, it was that small, and I was only 18, much too young to be able to accept such a catastrophe. We never did it again and it was over. It happened again with another man, a bit later in my life. We were together a year, it was bigger than the last story, but still so small. I loved him, I tried to get past it, we got engaged, I couldn't go through with it. I like the feel of something bigger inside of me during sex too much (and an interferring ex was part of it too, but that is way too long of a story). Anyway, my husband is a bit bigger than average and I am happy with that. I don't need a monster, I just want to feel good. Isn't that what sex is ultimately about? Part of feeling good emotionally, is feeling good physically so it all plays into that.
counterman Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 Couldn't hit the back of your mouth?! Okay... I'm sure he'll find someone that he'll satisfy completely. Well, if you're not feeling anything in sex then it would be really hard to keep the relationship going. Though, those guys must have felt really inadequate! I'm guessing the range from 4" to 7" would be adequate for most women, am I right? It is really important to feel good when you have sex and part of it is feeling comfortable physically with each other. What doesn't work for one person may work for another in saying that but it's just hard to imagine an extremely small on being satisfying.
FindingE Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 I would say 5-8 - 4 is just one inch longer than a standard post it note - not going to cut it for me, although, I am only speaking for me. I know 8 would be too much for some. It also depends on girth though, that is every bit as important as length. I have had a skinny, long guy before and it wasn't near as satisfying as the one who was two inches shorter but an inch or more larger in circumference. Perfect, in my eyes, is between 7-8 inches and about as fat as a polish sausage, maybe a little fatter. Heehee. This is a funny thread.
StWiPe Posted January 9, 2010 Posted January 9, 2010 The whole 'how it looks on you' hit a chord with me, cause I'm a big guy (tall and broad, not fat) and constantly obsess over the size of my penis. When I see it in the shower or mirror I'll be like 'hmpf, everything about me is huge except my dick', but then at other times if I'm looking at it in my GF's hands it almost looks porn-worthy. It's all about context. But if I had a pinky-sized penis I would be emotionally crippled for life. I'd probably join the priesthood or something.
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