f560 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 (edited) There's a girl I've met a few times that I think is great fun. I sent her a message on fb asking her if she was going to a certain party, and also asking for her number. She replied with her news. She said she was probably going, and asked if I was too. But she didn't give me her number. I thought the question itself has a pretty clear meaning, so the lack of reply does too. How would you read this? Edited January 7, 2010 by f560
deux ex machina Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 She doesn't want you to have her number.
hellp12234 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 sorry, but if she wanted you to have her number she would have sent it to you.
Mac McMenamin Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 That's what I'm taking out of it, if she wanted you to have her number she would have given it. All's not totally lost, she'll be at the party?
stillafool Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 No, she didn't want you to have her number. Don't ask for it again.
boogieboy Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Maybe she just missed it or maybe she thought that it was too soon to give it to you. Go to the party see if there is a vibe between you and her and take it slow. If after hanging out at the party, and she wants you to call her, she will give you her number. She didnt give you her number because she sees that you were too chicken to ask her in person also. Next time, ONLY ASK IN PERSON! Make yourself look good and popular at this party, be fun, talk to her, but dont ask her unless she is hinting for you to ask her.
Author f560 Posted January 8, 2010 Author Posted January 8, 2010 Thanks. I don't mind about not getting her number, because there are lots of ways I could reach her. But I still think it's a question which has a certain meaning (that I'm interested). So maybe she's trying to convey a certain response too, even though the rest of her message was generally enthusiastic. We'll see!
jules-marie Posted January 8, 2010 Posted January 8, 2010 some people genuinely dont like handing out their number straight away, could be for a number of reasons. if the rest of her message seemed enthusiastic i wouldnt say all is lost. play it cool, and wait until the next party before you ask (in person) for her number
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