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Well, Well, Well, Ex Contacted - Now What?


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We met up FACE TO FACE, and we did talk about it, and he wanted to get back together, realized he overreacted and I already know I overreacted! So since Friday night we are in the process of reconciling - discussed changes necessary in the relationship to make it work, etc., actually we are back together. Problem is, there is still some resentment from both parties about how it ended and part of me isn't hopeful of the fact that we can just let that go. I'm trying, I know he's trying, but something, maybe it's just me, isn't really sure this is all a great idea. Maybe we just aren't right for each other. Time will tell....

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We met up FACE TO FACE, and we did talk about it, and he wanted to get back together, realized he overreacted and I already know I overreacted! So since Friday night we are in the process of reconciling - discussed changes necessary in the relationship to make it work, etc., actually we are back together. Problem is, there is still some resentment from both parties about how it ended and part of me isn't hopeful of the fact that we can just let that go. I'm trying, I know he's trying, but something, maybe it's just me, isn't really sure this is all a great idea. Maybe we just aren't right for each other. Time will tell....

 

 

Be careful.... this could lead to a lot of heartache :(

 

I hope it works out!

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Be careful.... this could lead to a lot of heartache :(

 

I hope it works out!

 

Thank you for your words of caution! I think that's where the painful and confusing aspect of all this is - my heart still cares for him, but perhaps the deep rooted issues are still there, and on top of that, you add in that traumatic breakup to the mix. I will tread very carefully and take it very slowly. Only time will tell...thank you for your advice!

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