LovieDove24 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 (edited) My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months. During the beginning of our relationship I had the desire to dump him but stuck it out because I believed that he deserved a chance and that I shouldn't write him off so quickly. Plus he was so sweet, loving and attentive. But now the same things that struck me as "off" in the beginning are showing their face again. Here are the problems: 1) He acts sort of spineless, like he won't stick up for things even if he knows he is right. 2) He acts girly (i.e. talks in a gay "girly" voice all the time, he "sighs" in a high girly pitch, texts OMG, lol and :) in every effing text like he's a giddy little schoolgirl. 3) He won't eat my cooking because he is such a picky eater. 4) His main interests are sports, movies, etc and I crave discussions on topics of a bit deeper level. 5) He is too damn "polite" about sexual things. "Can I kiss you?" Or only rubbing my arm when in bed and claiming he was "Feeling me up", wtf? I told him I need aggression in that department still...nothing. All in all, I can't quite put my finger on it. I haven't told anybody about this but my sister and she said maybe I'm just staying with him because he is so nice and caring. I know I sound like a total bitch complaining about him on the internet, but what do you all think? Are these reasonable reasons to break up with someone? I wanted to give the nice guy a chance for once since I trully am over dating bad boys...Im just thinking this one might be a dud Edited January 7, 2010 by LovieDove24
LovelyDaze Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months. During the beginning of our relationship I had the desire to dump him but stuck it out because I believed that he deserved a chance and that I shouldn't write him off so quickly. Plus he was so sweet, loving and attentive. But now the same things that struck me as "off" in the beginning are showing their face again. Here are the problems: 1) He acts sort of spineless, like he won't stick up for things even if he knows he is right. 2) He acts girly (i.e. talks in a gay "girly" voice all the time, he "sighs" in a high girly pitch, texts OMG, lol and :) in every effing text like he's a giddy little schoolgirl. 3) He won't eat my cooking because he is such a picky eater. 4) His main interests are sports, movies, etc and I crave discussions on topics of a bit deeper level. 5) He is too damn "polite" about sexual things. "Can I kiss you?" Or only rubbing my arm when in bed and claiming he was "Feeling me up", wtf? I told him I need aggression in that department still...nothing. All in all, I can't quite put my finger on it. I haven't told anybody about this but my sister and she said maybe I'm just staying with him because he is so nice and caring. I know I sound like a total bitch complaining about him on the internet, but what do you all think? Are these reasonable reasons to break up with someone? I wanted to give the nice guy a chance for once since I trully am over dating bad boys...Im just thinking this one might be a dud No, you don't sound like a b-itch for saying what you feel. You DO sound like someone who is not happy after trying. It may be hard to be really honest to your BF about what gets on your nerves(i.e. "girly voice) but tell him truthfully that you need to part with him. As a dumpee, I can say that I am glad that my ex didn't decide to fake it and stay with me just because I am a nice person. Your ex can probably sense your distaste anyhow. Have a talk, part and just give yourself a break from dating until you know what and who you want in a relationship.
trueblue72ny Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 if he just doesn't do it for you, than he doesn't do it for you. maybe if he found his sac
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