Lizzie60 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 This is why a wedding ring is such a woman magnet and women love married men. They want to take what another women has. Are you kidding me? I don't want the ring..
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 It's not all about looks though, perceived social value factors in heavily. That is true,i wonder why "social value" is much more important to women then Men? As i said it was just weird seeing even married women act differently to me like i was a better person all of a sudden or something
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Are you kidding me? I don't want the ring.. What I mean is that if a man were to go into one bar wearing a wedding ring and one bar without one he will get much more action wearing his ring. Married men are at the top of the male dating food chain.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 That is true,i wonder why "social value" is much more important to women then Men? Anthropologically, because the higher a man's social status, the more aptly he can protect young in a group, and the more likely his young will also have high social value, leading to easier perpetuation of genes. Low social value genes are less likely to perpetuate, or were historically at least... In current U.S. culture, it's because even though survival and opportunities of young are no longer at issue, we have become thoroughly addicted to consumerist luxury, and people of high social standing can indulge that addiction in their mates more readily.
Lizzie60 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 What I mean is that if a man were to go into one bar wearing a wedding ring and one bar without one he will get much more action wearing his ring. Married men are at the top of the male dating food chain. Yes I know what you meant... it doesn't quite work that way for me.. I am not 'more' attracted to married guys because they are with someone else.. it's not a competition.. I 'prefer' MM for other reasons..
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Women tend to be more concerned with status and keeping up with the Jonses than men are. They want to live a special hollywood life like the stars. As for me I couldn't care less about social standing. I make money yo finance what I enjoy and survive and that is it. Status means dog ish to me.
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Anthropologically, because the higher a man's social status, the more aptly he can protect young in a group, and the more likely his young will also have high social value, leading to easier perpetuation of genes. Low social value genes are less likely to perpetuate, or were historically at least... In current U.S. culture, it's because even though survival and opportunities of young are no longer at issue, we have become thoroughly addicted to consumerist luxury, and people of high social standing can indulge that addiction in their mates more readily. Yeha its kinda that way with my friend whos the "leader" of our group so to speak who makes most of the plans,hes engaged and in our circle of friends women still fawn over him My friends wife used the term he seems "fertile" as to why women like him and certian guys like him
Yamaha Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 the higher a man's social status, the more aptly he can protect young in a group, No *****. Why do many wealthy society types not want kids? Low social value genes are less likely to perpetuate, Is this why Margaret Sanger started planned parenthood so she could weed out the low class genes?
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Women tend to be more concerned with status and keeping up with the Jonses than men are. They want to live a special hollywood life like the stars. As for me I couldn't care less about social standing. I make money yo finance what I enjoy and survive and that is it. Status means dog ish to me. Which expalains why hollywood dicates to women whats good looking But what does social value have to do with living a hollywod life? I dont see what a women thinks the "alpha" or popular guy in a group automatically can bring to her material wise
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 The alpha is harder to get so it shos she is hot stuff if she can get him. He is pretty much a trophy for her.
tkgirl Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I would say that, in general, women are pickier... even just for sex... Men on the other hand.. when horny... would 'eff' just about anything.. (in general )... For sex.. they won't mind a few extra pounds.. a little bit too much make-up... a slutty look... piss-colour hair... etc... BUT... if they are looking for a 'serious relationship".. then it's another story... they will be just as pickier as women are.. I agree.. women are generally pickier and with good reason!
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 The alpha is harder to get so it shos she is hot stuff if she can get him. He is pretty much a trophy for her. But im tlaking married women in the same circle whos friends with his wife say to me thats why hes attractive but they have no plans on cheating with him so its not all just the trophy thing
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 But im tlaking married women in the same circle whos friends with his wife say to me thats why hes attractive but they have no plans on cheating with him so its not all just the trophy thing Eventually one will cheat with him.
Yamaha Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/152601.php FYI......
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Eventually one will cheat with him. Even though their good friend is married to him and they are married?
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Even though their good friend is married to him and they are married? Yes. None of that matters.
tami-chan Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 In general women are pickier. But I tend to be pickier than most women. It's cuz you're AZHUN! Seriously, I think women are pickier.....I think this is the kind of answer you wanted to support what you believe or already know, right, betamanlet?
Buckeye Candy Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I'm a picky man. I want a smart, attractive, funny woman (a woman who shares my sense of humor - that is the picky part), I want her to be sensitive but independent (not overwhelmingly clingy or insecure), sexually adventurous, emotionally supportive whether I need her next to me or I need space, good with children, a good cook, physically fit and a few other random things. I held out and I found her so go me.
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Yes. None of that matters. I know these people I dont think so,i think you have had a bad experience and want to label everyone like that A women can be attracted to soembody while MArired and not have sex with that person
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 No *****. Why do many wealthy society types not want kids? Anthropological factors are deep lizard brain responses built up over millions of years, wingwang, not cerebral cortex "big brain" rational decisions such as wealthy people choosing not to breed. Get it? Got it? Good. Same applies to the inane planned parenthood comment.
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/152601.php FYI...... Stopped reading when I came to the phrase "speed dating study." :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
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