betamanlet Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I hear about men rejecting women due to weight, but I hear about women rejected guys for things such as scoffed shoes, dirty fingernails, whether they bite their fingernails, pleated vs. flatfront pants. Who is pickier?
threebyfate Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Women are more picky and for good reason. Men tend to choose based on looks, then come crying to LS, wondering why they got ass-raped, when the girl turned out to be bat-shyte crazy!
burning 4 revenge Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Women are more picky and for good reason. Men tend to choose based on looks, then come crying to LS, wondering why they got ass-raped, when the girl turned out to be bat-shyte crazy! could you please expand upon your theory of needs vs wants at length
Lizzie60 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I hear about men rejecting women due to weight, but I hear about women rejected guys for things such as scoffed shoes, dirty fingernails, whether they bite their fingernails, pleated vs. flatfront pants. Who is pickier? I would say that, in general, women are pickier... even just for sex... Men on the other hand.. when horny... would 'eff' just about anything.. (in general )... For sex.. they won't mind a few extra pounds.. a little bit too much make-up... a slutty look... piss-colour hair... etc... BUT... if they are looking for a 'serious relationship".. then it's another story... they will be just as pickier as women are..
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Women are more picky and for good reason. Men tend to choose based on looks, then come crying to LS, wondering why they got ass-raped, when the girl turned out to be bat-shyte crazy! This statement is very... "interesting" from a logic perspective. Are you saying that women are more picky due in part to men choosing based on looks? or that women are more picky due in part to men crying to (sic) LS wondering why they got "ass-raped?" or that women are more picky due in part to men choosing women who turn out to be "bat-shyte crazy?" If women are more picky for good reason, what exactly -are- those reasons again?
Author betamanlet Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 I would say that, in general, women are pickier... even just for sex... Men on the other hand.. when horny... would 'eff' just about anything.. (in general )... For sex.. they won't mind a few extra pounds.. a little bit too much make-up... a slutty look... piss-colour hair... etc... BUT... if they are looking for a 'serious relationship".. then it's another story... they will be just as pickier as women are.. May I ask a followup question? Do women use this horniness to their advantage? I have a pretty low sex drive, and women apparently don't like that.
threebyfate Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 could you please expand upon your theory of needs vs wants at lengthTranslation: You've given your theory enough cyber time so stop spouting it ad nauseum!
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Translation: You've given your theory enough cyber time so stop spouting it ad nauseum! Oh, I see now, you are just "shouting down" posts on the internet that you don't agree with by bullying a poster into posting only the things you want to read. Bravo! How's that workin for ya?
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Women are picky about certain things. If he is married then no big deal but let him be a great guy with one tiny flaw and it is the end of the world to her.
Hot Carl Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Oh, I see now, you are just "shouting down" posts on the internet that you don't agree with by bullying a poster into posting only the things you want to read. Bravo! How's that workin for ya? Bad day at work?
BUENG1 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I hear about men rejecting women due to weight, but I hear about women rejected guys for things such as scoffed shoes, dirty fingernails, whether they bite their fingernails, pleated vs. flatfront pants. Who is pickier? I will jump in before this turns into another women vs men war. I think its pretty clear(I would say this is almost certain) that women are pickier. Who is more successful in the dating world someone who is say a dead average male( I guess some would say a 5) or a dead average female?I think is almost certain to say Who is more likely to have a boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband? I would say that the majority of women really want say the top 10%( I just made up that number up) of men, and some settle for lesser partner, and some settle for being the other person. I don't have statistics, but I would bet there are more single women who are other woman than there are single men who are other men. There's a reason for this. The single women want x men. And then the married woman who have affairs want x men. And obviously the wives want x men as well.
Lizzie60 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 May I ask a followup question? Do women use this horniness to their advantage? I have a pretty low sex drive, and women apparently don't like that. I'm sure some women do take it to their advantage.. no doubt.. but, in most cases, women will have to have every single thing they're looking for in a partner in order to date/have sex with him..
Pizzaman81 Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 In general women are pickier. But I tend to be pickier than most women.
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Women are much more pickier,i think its because as a child they dreamed about their wedding day and what their dream man looked like and him sweeping them off their feet.. Some dont realize till too late nobodies perfect..Or that they dont bring the same thigns to the table that they look for in a man though some think havign a vagina should be enough to get anyone they desire..
Author betamanlet Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 I will jump in before this turns into another women vs men war. I think its pretty clear(I would say this is almost certain) that women are pickier. Who is more successful in the dating world someone who is say a dead average male( I guess some would say a 5) or a dead average female?I think is almost certain to say Who is more likely to have a boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband? I would say that the majority of women really want say the top 10%( I just made up that number up) of men, and some settle for lesser partner, and some settle for being the other person. I don't have statistics, but I would bet there are more single women who are other woman than there are single men who are other men. There's a reason for this. The single women want x men. And then the married woman who have affairs want x men. And obviously the wives want x men as well. women desire men that other women desire.
dreamergrl Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 Eh I've met some pretty picky guys when it comes to looks.
Author betamanlet Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 I'm sure some women do take it to their advantage.. no doubt.. but, in most cases, women will have to have every single thing they're looking for in a partner in order to date/have sex with him.. So if I have a low sex drive, sex cannot be used so much as a weapon against me to get what she wants, despite me loving her?
Author betamanlet Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 Eh I've met some pretty picky guys when it comes to looks. I've talked to women who said there were "no good guys left" and when they finally defined what that was, it was (in DC) at least 6'3, makes over 400k a year, and preferably has an English accent.
dreamergrl Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I've talked to women who said there were "no good guys left" and when they finally defined what that was, it was (in DC) at least 6'3, makes over 400k a year, and preferably has an English accent. No?! You dont say?! I can't imagine that you would have actually been told that!
Author betamanlet Posted January 7, 2010 Author Posted January 7, 2010 No?! You dont say?! I can't imagine that you would have actually been told that! It's what I overheard, not what I was told. I can give you witnesses if you'd like.
PJKino Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 women desire men that other women desire. I dont know why its that way but i didnt believe it till recently.. For the first time in years i hooked up with a girl, my friends wives best friend,only real reason was becasue she was drunk but thats another story.. After that my friends wife treated me differnetly was much nicer to me out of nowhere and so were other married women in my circle of freinds.. Not that they were hitting on me but i amazingly became i dunno more desirable or a better person because a cute girl slept with me.. I dont know if women look at it as a seal of approval or competiton or what..
meerkat stew Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I dont know why its that way but i didnt believe it till recently.. For the first time in years i hooked up with a girl, my friends wives best friend,only real reason was becasue she was drunk but thats another story.. After that my friends wife treated me differnetly was much nicer to me out of nowhere and so were other married women in my circle of freinds.. Not that they were hitting on me but i amazingly became i dunno more desirable or a better person because a cute girl slept with me.. I dont know if women look at it as a seal of approval or competiton or what.. It's a snowball effect, often why dealing with women turns into a "when it rains it pours" type of phenomenon. Once you are accepted by a "queen bee" type in a social group, your attraction as a prospect skyrockets for other female members of that group. This is the explanation for the lament of lots of guys here who complain that women are all after the same men. It's not all about looks though, perceived social value factors in heavily.
DiscoChick Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 I'm a woman, and I am picky, but I'm flexible about some things. I know more men than women, and I can honestly say that the guys I know are pickier.I am the pickiest of all my friends. I am the one that has been in the fewest relationships (2).
Woggle Posted January 7, 2010 Posted January 7, 2010 It's a snowball effect, often why dealing with women turns into a "when it rains it pours" type of phenomenon. Once you are accepted by a "queen bee" type in a social group, your attraction as a prospect skyrockets for other female members of that group. This is the explanation for the lament of lots of guys here who complain that women are all after the same men. It's not all about looks though, perceived social value factors in heavily. This is why a wedding ring is such a woman magnet and women love married men. They want to take what another women has.
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