Boundary Problem Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 I don't know what to do. I was at a coffee shop today and an attractive man, I mean totally my type, walked in and he noticed me and he noticed me checking him out. But then I got really afraid. I've decided to start dating again. Seriously consider people and go have fun, not just in response to someone who asks me out. But I've decided to genuinely engage with the opposite sex. But today I realized I'm afraid of them. I don't really know why. But I thought that man was very attractive, and I purposely walked out an exit where I didn't have to walk past him as I was leaving. How do I confront a fear of men? I don't mean physical fear. I guess I mean emotional fear. It was a very viscreal (sp?) fear. Deep fear. I've got a problem. BP
TaraMaiden Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Yes, you have. What would you like to do about it? And where do you think you should start?
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