mistakesweremade Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 Hello all. Maybe you can help me maybe you can't. So we broke up 8 months ago. She broke it off with me. After the initial shock I kind of stayed at minimal contact over the next couple months. You know only responding to her reaching out. We did see each other once over this period for about 3 days (we don't live in the same city). It was ok no real fighting or major breakthroughs, we did have sex though. Then we went back to LC. Now, last week I severed the last tie that gave us a reason to keep in LC (shared bill). I think now I'm just going to let her do her thing and I'm going to do mine. And that leads me to my dilemma.... After the breakup I made some life changing decisions. Probably not the smartest, but I did it and now have to live with it. First, I convinced my job to lay me off. Then I got rid of everything that I couldn't fit in my car and moved to a different city. Mind you this took a couple months, it wasn't the day or week after the break up. I also spent the last couple months traveling. So my problem is I need a second chance at my life. Here I am a city where I only know a handful of people. I don't have a job or go to school. I figure I need to get this part of my life sorted out before anything else can happen. Anyone out there go through anything like this?
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