Krazysweet Posted January 6, 2010 Posted January 6, 2010 well after my unfortunate breakup, towards the end im not gna lie i wanted it to stay. but in my heart i wasnt happy and i was always "sad" when i saw him which i didnt see as a problem. but as time is going by he is such a little kid. i forgot about him, i completely deleted everything that had 2 do with him from my life. but there was things we had to exchange... my stuff was expensisve, ok i got his stuff together that was at my home....thats it, his clothes i gave him when he said "i gotta do it so someone can get my **** when they need it" "BUT GET EVERYTHING" duh that tells u everythin. so ok i took it we had a date n when i got a txt it said "i love u BUT i cant be in a relationship cuz i have to go leave" ...BULLL**** i know the truth even if he did promise WE would be the SAME after..." wtf why do that to someone that has gone head over heels to do **** 4 u? **** that, my spine got strong as hell after that but i cant trust anyone now...mistakes make u i get it but, but now ive moved on (i hate his guts) but i cant trust ANYONE. n it worries me ill pass up something worth it cuz he lied. can any1 help me???? by the way i did get my friends back but hes a little kid n harasses me still even after i straight up want nothing with him!!
Author Krazysweet Posted January 6, 2010 Author Posted January 6, 2010 "What she called trust was really submisive behavior, and total non-confront in issues she needed to confront him in. She didn't clear issues that she felt might me problematic, but stayed silent and "trustful". Only after a breakup she realized that she was just hoping that his intentions (why is he in the relationship) were the same as hers. " sry im new too but thats how i was but after the breakup i was very respectful (despite "how he controled me") n i was MAD n i stood up n confronted which was something he somehow knew how to control n im not gna lie i would submit, but after the breakup i got my streighth back but when i did stick up everything he said still had a hold on me even if i didnt show it i got jumpy when i wld get a txt n sh** n i dnt know why, cuz i just think of him n my stomach gets nausious n i get worried but my prob is that he wnt leave me alone nomatter how much i distance myself he still seems to threatn me without "officially doing it" n ive tryed being mature about it being respectful n everything n i have even tryed going down to his level but he still intimidates me n i just want him out of my life. howd ur sis do it??? keep in mind he s extremely imature including his new gf.
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